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    Default Facebook close and come in masculine or not at all...

    Went out last night...

    Talked to a good looking bartender at one of the major bars down town... She told me what she does in her spare time and her plans for life... Recently, I had thought I made rapport with a different bartender a few weeks back at a different place, but she didn't want to give me her number... I think sometimes it freaks them out... So this time, I asked for Facebook and got it...

    Wouldn't you know, she didn't add me... Don't know why... Everything seemed to go well when we were talking... But anyway...

    Also, through my drunken stupor of the night... It occurred to me that you need to be masculine and buff or you're wasting these girls times... They have a lot of options...

    I need to hit the gym big time and dress better...

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    Default Re: Facebook close and come in masculine or not at all...

    It's not about building rapport right away... it's about building attraction first.

    FUN is the ultimate attraction switch. So when you make the interaction fun, the girl is gonna want more & will be more likely to give you her number.

    MOST guys try to "have conversations" with girls... especially bartenders. So doing that will only lump you into the same category as the rest of the schmucks who are doing that.

    You have to flirt!

    Ask her to make you her "specialty drink" or her "favorite drink" when you order... but tell her NOT to tell you what it is.

    Then, when she brings it, make a comment like, "Oh! Did you just make a me a GIRLY drink? What the heck IS this? Why on earth do you think I need a girly drink? Are you messing with me???"

    Then smile & wink at her & laugh.... and tell her, "Thank you, but lemme taste it before I form any real opinions on your bartender prowess". *wink again.

    Little things like that will make you more memorable & you'll stand out because you were fun & confident, and didn't say or do the same lame crap that the other 20 guys lined up at the bar are doing.



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    Default Re: Facebook close and come in masculine or not at all...

    I would never even think to mack on a bartender. They are there to work not have guys pick them up. If you want to hook up with a bartender be a bartender then she becomes your co-worker. I know a guy who is very good looking but seems socially awkward yet he is engaged to a very attractive woman who is also a bartender like him. I guess it kind of proves women are shallow because there's no reason a hot woman would want a guy like him other than the fact that he's good looking.

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    Default Re: Facebook close and come in masculine or not at all...

    I don't put bartenders on a pedestal...

    I know some of the hottest bartenders in town that have trouble paying their electric bills...

    They have boyfriends, right? Where do they meet them?

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    Default Re: Facebook close and come in masculine or not at all...

    I once met a woman at a laundromat who worked as a bartender. Instead of getting her number(like I should have)I told her I would stop by her bar one day which I did. When that happened I just turned into every other dude at the bar and didn't stand out. I never went back to the bar after that and never saw her again.


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