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    Default THESE GIRLS!

    I am sure at a stage every man has come across a playette. You know, those girls that somehow keep you interested and you feel as if you need to conquer and beat them at the game.
    These girls manage to flirt with numerous other guys, much like a female version of a p.u.a.
    These girls, however, don't just put out they just like to flirt non stop and obtain a guys attention.

    I've stumbled across a fair few of these girls throughout the last few years, normally just ignoring them and occasionally hooking up with them then moving on to other girls.
    Now i would not mind playing the playette.

    Has anyone else experienced these little devils?
    How do you game them? From personal experience, jealousy works a treat but not sure what else.



    Grexxx

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    Default Re: THESE GIRLS!

    oh wow i love social butterflys. i learned how to tame the little devils from vin dicarlos pandoras box. I actually made a post with a guy that has one of those girls and jealousy works because they want your attention not some other girl. A playette isnt the one that gets out there and is loud and sleeps around a lot. this kind of girl is called a social butterfly.

    Overview
    We all know about “the party girl.” She’s the pretty, energetic girl that talks to everyone, including you, and then leaves you wanting more. Was she flirting with you, or is she just like that with everyone? Guess what – every other guy in the room is thinking the same thing.
    Guess what else…she knows it.
    The Social Butterfly is a combination of Tester, Justifier, and Idealist. Her behavior likens her to her namesake. She is like a butterfly – beautiful, enticing, and hard to catch – unless you know what you are doing.
    As with all Testers, if you must separate yourself from the countless other guys chasing her. But the Social Butterfly is different from the Playette in her Justifier Mindset. She embraces an aggressive approach, as long as she doesn’t get the feeling that sex with her is a trophy for you.
    If you can keep a casual, fun, pressure-free interaction going, sex is an almost certain outcome once you are alone with the Butterfly. But if she senses that she is a conquest, and that you have any sexual neediness in your attitude, she will flutter away.
    The Social Butterfly is more likely to sleep with a guy just because he’s hot. However, “hot” can mean many different things: well-dressed, confident, nice smile, in charge of other men , nice abs, etc. This girl gets different things from different men, and loves the newness of the stimuli. She likes to try different men for their kissing styles, cock sizes, fashion and music styles, you name it.
    The one thing she does not like is pressure and over-emphasis on sentiment. She loves romance, but doesn’ t like navel-gazing and “deep conversations.” In a sense, she’s more down to earth, as she realizes that you won’t uncover life’s secrets with a near-stranger on you first date.
    Be a guy she chases and feels is almost out of her reach. We’ll show you how in the next section.
    As a Justifier, the Butterfly is sexually experienced. Fucking is nothing new to her. But a new position, or adding an element of psychological dominance via roleplaying are probably as-yet unrealized in her sex life. Even if she has done kinkier stuff than what you do with her, you at least won’t fall into the boring category. It’s likely that she might initiate you to something new. If that’s the case, go with it, or, again, get left in the dust.
    A true Butterfly is likely in college or relatively young, and not ready for a career or marriage. That’s good news for you. But if she commits to a guy, he better keep her interest. Otherwise, she will cheat, and dump the guy soon after. This is a woman that men end up chasing, and in doing so, push her further away. Clearly you can see that separating yourself from all the other needy, submissive, boring guys is crucial to catching a Butterfly.
    You can approach a Butterfly in any way you choose. It’s all fun to her. Just don’t be timid. The key with her is, without any better way to describe it in writing, 100 percent commitment and exposure. For example, if you are in a bar you can say a toast and clink her glass. Or you can compliment her hair. BUT, do not try to be smooth or sexual at first. Be happy, energetic, and do it (whatever it is) all the way. This is the most powerful way to convey dominance - essentially a lack of timidity – and is fundamental to attracting a Social Butterfly.
    Here are some tips for grabbing a Butterfly’s attention when approaching:
    • Be loud
    • Stand tall, and position yourself in same proximity as if you already know her
    • Smile and look her in the eye when YOU are talking
    • Use fun, dominant touch – when you hug her, lift her up slightly.
    And here are some examples of what to say to break the ice:
    • You spot her tatoo: “Whoa – nice ink. What’s the story with that?”
    • She’s wearing a senior Frog T-Shirt: “Hold on – I was in Cancun last year too. Why didn’t I see you?”
    • Playing cornhole in front of her apartment: “Nice hole. My squad could take you guys – loser buys shots at McGees Pub tonight.”
    Momentum
    It’s not hard to get a Butterfly’s attention. It’s keeping it that’s the challenge. Your best bet is to find out what her interests are. It may sound obvious, but most guys screw this up by asking interview-style questions. Pay attention to her – she wears her life on her sleeve. She likely will wear, talk about, or do, something that is interesting to her. Comment on it and relate to it.
    She’s a tester, so tease her immediately. Even more than the Playette, the Social Butterfly responds very powerfully to being teased. Just make sure you can take what you dish out because this woman loves to banter. Stay on your toes, and stay focused on lightly pointing out her silly quirks and mistakes. And, as always, back it up with warmth –that’s what makes teasing work. Otherwise you’ll just come off as mean and socially incompetent.
    She may float away to talk to other people, but that’s her nature. Don’t take it as a rejection. She will remember you. Bump into her again and continue where you left off – but don’t just start talking or asking herquestions. Try something random, light, and fun – give her a high five or say, “Oh jeez – you again. What’s up lady?” with a big smile on your face.
    Connection
    It may seem counter-intuitive, but with a Tester, especially a Tester-Justifier, finding one deep topic and exploring it can have a profound effect. But keep this as a contrast, an exemption to the rule: keep the conversation light, positive, and rhythmic (no awkward silences).
    Testers usually have one or two passionate interests that they keep to themselves. If you can uncover it, you have separated yourself from the other guys orbiting her vagina. And that’s what it really comes down to with Testers – be the guy she chases, not the guy chasing her.
    Note: with an iNvestor, it’s the opposite – discussing a wide variety of topics is effective because of the meaning behind the nature of that conversation: “we are so connected that we can talk about anything and not worry about sticking to superficial commonalities”).
    So how to use her interests to make her chase you? It’s not a matter of her clinging to your pant leg. The real manifestation of her chasing you is, for example, her telling you things she normally doesn’t reveal, and you, in-turn, offering her more attention and time. You MUST convey that your sexual interest is a reward.
    The strongest power-play with this girl is to connect deeply on one or two topics, while Threading (a skill we teach in our Bootcamps), be bold physically and sleep with her as soon as logistics allow. If you are alone with her, use that as a window to get physical. If you miss thiswindow, she’ll quickly move on. After sex, don’t cuddle or make long-term plans. Don’t try to be her new boyfriend – that’s what every other guy does and it’s boring. Keep it casual on you end, and she will be wondering why the hell you don’t want her!
    Manhandle this woman. You can get away with so much as long as you are in a good mood and have a playful energy. If you are dancing, guide her body, spin her, etc. If you’re standing in a crowded area, throw her over your shoulder with one arm and walk to a less crowded spot. Sether down gently and continue the conversation as normal.
    Don’t try to seduce her by touching her hair, neck, or face. Generally, focus on moving her entire body via hand on her back, legs, or by taking her arm in yours. Hand-holding is too romantic and intimate at first.
    Fun, big movements are exciting to her. Pick her up, guide her body around, and definitely dance with her if you have the opportunity. This girl loves to dance so she can get out of her head, and move around. A good dancer scores huge points for this party girl.
    Sex
    The key sexually is to push the limits. Do NOT be another one of her conquests. Be very dominant – pull her hair, choke her a little (simply putting your hands around her neck is enough to create the right effect), spank her, etc. Combine gentle, rhythmic thrusting, with hard, deep pounding, and be sure to talk dirty. Tell her how sexy she is, how you love how naughty she is for you…tell her she’s a bad girl while spanking her, etc.
    If you push her limits sexually, and create a dynamic of sexual dominance, to her submission, she will see you as a valuable, an intriguing man to chase and win over. You are a challenge to her.
    Your challenge is to keep it that way. New stimuli, positive energy, and sexual dominance are the keys to keeping a Social Butterfly interested.

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    Default Re: THESE GIRLS!

    ohh that is a great post, i'll give it a crack and see how it goes! thanks bud

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    Default Re: THESE GIRLS!

    your welcome man. Those girls are great. Just make sure when you see when and she flutters away, its not rejection. Just keep mingling especially with women cause then she will be wondering why you dont want her and she will come over and try to steal your attention

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    I am in love with one girl but she was committed to some other guy and that guy was not loved her that much ......sometimes they dont talk to each other for week.BUt somehow that guy able to manage holding her up with him.She and i used to talk with each other daily very closely just like in a relationship but at end she bring that wall between us....she thinks that if she will be with me....she will cheat that guy.
    And it is somehow ryt. But i don think so dat he loves her, he just wants her to be his girlfriend .
    And we have stopped talking with each other for sometime because she dont want to talk to me or other excuses. Now after a long time, i started talking to her again but she again started bringing that wall between us with less resistance. And one more thing, i think that now she had a breakup with him.
    I think she is a playette personality, please tell me how to get into mind of playette women, tame her, make her fall in love with me in my respective situation.
    And we mostly talk on phone or texts.

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    Default Re: THESE GIRLS!

    Quote Originally Posted by keyboard jockey View Post
    I am sure at a stage every man has come across a playette. You know, those girls that somehow keep you interested and you feel as if you need to conquer and beat them at the game.
    These girls manage to flirt with numerous other guys, much like a female version of a p.u.a.
    These girls, however, don't just put out they just like to flirt non stop and obtain a guys attention.

    I've stumbled across a fair few of these girls throughout the last few years, normally just ignoring them and occasionally hooking up with them then moving on to other girls.
    Now i would not mind playing the playette.

    Has anyone else experienced these little devils?
    How do you game them? From personal experience, jealousy works a treat but not sure what else.



    Grexxx
    I don't know man playette that's like the second time I heard that word but thanks for explaining the meaning. But now that you mention it I am working on one right now. She is just a side project I got going on POF & FB, she is playing hard to get like really hard. I say she is a side project cuz I got downtime and working on new job stuff, waiting for Summer to do day game, taking a break from Club, etc. But yeah I have been hitting it hard from February-April and need a break after all that. I am getting burned out that's why. Might pick it up next month.

    This HB9 is one hot tamale and I have added and met a lot of super hot girls on FB. However this one literally has pic after pic of different guys she is on dates with, doing kino with, guys she is kissing, etc. Yeah she loves the attention that's for sure and has no trouble getting a man but she is on POF like everyday? WTF?

    Her behavior is a little odd since she is single yet dating these guys, yet she still won't reject me. She won't agree to go out with me either. She is super hard to game. She is unhindered by freeze outs, social proof, good looks, she is just going to get any guy she wants I guess. I guess she just likes playing hard to get with me which is rough. No real strategy since nothing works on her just keep trying different routines to try and hook up with her.

    Right now I guess I am just playing hard to get with her doing some pre-emptive flaking on her, teasing her about asking her out and then not doing it, telling her I like her then telling her she is boring me. I will tell her like "I will ask you out 99% for sure this time we can do something this weekend for like the Club HB, I'll get ahold of you this weekend" and then I am a total no show to do a little push pull there.

    Right now I am just doing a 3 day Freeze Out then going to tease her about the upcoming weekend and then don't contact her all weekend by doing another 3 day freeze out to ping her emotions and get her chasing me.


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