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    Default Tinder match with a girl I know form the social scence

    Hi Guys

    I have had this before but I messed it up so I am taking some advice from u guys this time.

    I got super liked by a girl I know from a couple of times I met her for a dance or so in a social dancing place. There was a hint of chemistry but I could never get around to talking to her. She was always amazed by my dancing skills and now we matched in tinder.

    How do I open to her in Tinder ? I had the following in mind:

    Hey ! Looks like I have been extra nice this year; Santa sent in a new years surprise with the cutest smile.


    What do u guys u think ?

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    Default Re: Tinder match with a girl I know form the social scence

    Gay!

    say something more like "Hey, guess what?"

    once she asks what, say. "I've decided I want to take you dancing, so I'm taking you dancing. So I'll pick you up before the next social dance event and we go together. Sounds good yeah?"
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Tinder match with a girl I know form the social scence

    Thanks Dude. That's a nice tactic to get her out !

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Gay!

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    Can u clarify why u think the above one was Gay as u call it.

    I have been reading lots of PUA material and quiet a few state you should be very comfortable and clear in your intent right from the start. Like Models from Manson and The Alabastar Girl. Both ask u to be open to the girl about your intentions and not shy off from taking a bold stance but with elegance rather than arrogance.

    Also would u consider that both me and the girl are no in our 20s but in our 30s !

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    Default Re: Tinder match with a girl I know form the social scence

    Firstly the whole (santa sent you a gift with the sweetest smile) she can either be like "aw that's sweet and cute, how old is he? 13."

    or she can be like "why the fuck is this guy telling what santa got him for Christmas, how old is he? 13"

    If you want to establish you're intension or attraction to her, she needs to know it's her with the sweetest smile. Not some fairtail open ended mystery as the first thing you say.

    honestly, if she in her 30's, likes your dancing (youthful) and on tinder. She may be the cougar type. Which means she probably prefers a younger, stronger, recklessly sexually driven man in his 20's but since you got the dance, you got her attention.

    What I said which I'm assuming you think was said with arrogance, is exactly what a 30 Yr old, tinder swiping, dance loving, possibly cougar is looking for.

    she is attracted to youth and fun things because makes her feel young, in control and attractive (That's why telling her to come dancing is good)

    she 30, she doesn't want to beat around the bush, waste time, wants a young cocky confident man who to some come off (arrogant) and others (in charge) which also is a sexual indicator that you are the dominated, the cougar can put 30% effort into sex and enjoy the other 70% while you do all work, also young men are far more enthusiastic about going down on girls and cougars notbit and love it.

    She may not be like a cougar, but she may have cougar traits like attraction to youthful things
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Tinder match with a girl I know form the social scence

    Thanks man ! She maybe a cougar as u say but I am as old as her so thats probably not it.

    What would u modify in my opener ?

    I am usually the arrogant, making jokes and sometimes cocky guy ! And yes women like that but despite that I am having issues getting laid probably because I am bad at comfort and Kino.

    Hence what I made from reading the Models and other such books was that its better to be direct ! Ofcourse when I meet her I will be teasing her and making her laugh; its when I get close when the issue starts. Girls dont feel comfortable around me !

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    Default Re: Tinder match with a girl I know form the social scence

    My opener, like on street is at the bottom of thread (link below).

    Its simple, short, rapid and gets really good results, it has an explanation of why I say and do things, and the reactions caused.Bad Boy or Bad News

    The key to is its success is before I get to the punch line, I've allready got her to reply to what I said before, but because so much is happening at once and she is getting the chance to think about her answer, by the time I demand her number, she is completely obiedient to my command because she is merely responding to the environment I've put her in by paving a way that cancels her rehearsed behaviour to these types of situation.

    apply the same principle, first break ice and get her to respond, then establish intention, then demand. Mind you she can read and think about it on messenger so results may not be as effective in direct day and night game.

    make sure you make your tinder profile youthful, photos of you doing interesting shit, having fun, and any social proof like you sitting or dancing with a girl, smiling, travel.

    Dont have a serious bio either like this shit "I'm looking for one to settle down with"

    write like "have you seen happy feet? Well he is my spirit animal, I LOVE to Dance!"
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Tinder match with a girl I know form the social scence

    Nice touch on Happy feet !
    Tinder seems to have gone to shit though lately !

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    Default Re: Tinder match with a girl I know form the social scence

    Thanks man !
    For comfort building can u please suggest some links or footage ! I can joke and make girls laugh and do Push Pull but as someone here suggested u cant get a girl unless u get her comfortable. From what I see more and more its my inability to make women comfortable around me that is one of the major issues. I also realized that once the comfort comes the Kino and physical intimacy will come just naturally !

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    Default Re: Tinder match with a girl I know form the social scence

    Honestly, I have no idea with comfort and articles etc.

    Basically depending on the topic of discussion, I speak with passion on what I believe in wether she agrees or not, and without threatening her beliefs or making her feel stupid.

    So so I don't try prove her wrong, I speak as if I'm making an announcement to a group of people listening. But I never say I agree, but if my opinion on the matter resonates with hers we have just built comfort. I believe this is called intamacy. But that's all I can suggest.

    just be genuine, don't submit to her opinions, and don't project you're opinion in away that makes her feel like her opinion is less superior to yours.

    its not a debate, it's communication.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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