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    Question I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    Since it is a long story I'll write it down listed.

    • I met a girl in the summer, I hadn't talk with her much. And she was interested in a guy called kkk. (I was unaware of the game stuff at that time)
    • In February I found her roommate on Facebook, for about 3 weeks I asked her. One day I was able to chat with the girl, she told me that she has a bf for 5 years, named nnn. And she rejected me.
    • I'll go to see her (1100 kms away), to her collage. She will be with her friends there, they know about me (but they haven't see me). (She is not aware that I'll go to see her)

    I'm asking you how to approach to her? What to say at very first, just tell me what is in your mind.

    (note: now I'm more fit, good dressing, no glasses anymore..., and she had not see me since summer)

    My biggest fear is her friend, she probably will yell at me, thus it will make the situation more worse.

    I think to do this: Hi Ggg, (smile, handshake, and slap her hand), you are such a bad girl. And then when possible to tell her: "You didn't tough that I gave up, did you?". And then something like, "I'm not much interested in you, just wanted to see your reaction". And continue push/pull...

    Just tell me what pops to your mind. What would you do in the opening?
    Thanks in advance!
    Last edited by darkhorn; 05-04-2010 at 05:23 PM.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    that sounds pretty good. can we hear a little bit about the girl. and u said she has a boyfriend of 5 years or is that the friend

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    Default Re: I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    that sounds pretty good. can we hear a little bit about the girl. and u said she has a boyfriend of 5 years or is that the friend
    She has a boyfriend, at least it is what she told me. However I think that either she has no bf or has but not interested in him because she was trying to flirt with someone else.

    I don't want to reveal my country etc stuff but I'll say these:
    Both we are originally from same district from Xxxland, ethnically same (Yyy), we live in same district in Yyyland. (damn, it was planned in mind to date with such girl, before i saw her)

    And stuff here works like that, she will not date with someone here in Yyyland even she is ethically Yyy, mostly (99%) she will/is date(ing) with a guy who is from Xxxland and ethically Yyy. Thus, things in her relationship life have not changed since the summer, since she is not at home. It might sound creepy but it is something cultural, ppl want same cultural background here. And thus she has not too big spectrum.

    She is like 8 or 9, I don't know.
    Last edited by darkhorn; 05-04-2010 at 05:57 PM.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    Forget talking to her when you are there in the first place...

    As soon as you show up she is going to think it's because she is there, this will make her be very very un-open to you and you are going to have to struggle to get anywhere with her.

    What you need to do is go to the college, but when you get there just hang out with some people that you like, don't look her way, don't think about her, truly have fun with whoever you are with... The fun you are having will show on your face, and when she sees you there she is going to be jealous AND interested in you because of you obvious social standing.

    The ONLY reason you should talk to her when you are there is if she comes up to you (chances are she will), reply as if you were talking to an HB1.

    Example that happened to me today:
    (HB10 just walked over to me after an approach and my use of jealousy)
    Her: Hey what's up?
    Me: Not much you? (You need to understand how i say this, it's 100% polite, 100% respectful, but it shows NO interest in her at all, basically telling her that she needs to step it up if she wants my attention)
    At this point she actually grabs my arm and starts running the back of her hand up and down it while giving other various ioi's
    Me: Haha sweetie we aren't far enough in for you to do that to me yet.
    Her: Oh okay...
    Me: I love this kind of music (we are at a concert), how bout you?
    Her: Yea me too.
    Me: Want to dance? (step into keno)
    Her: Haha alright
    ...

    I have a d2 with this girl tomorrow...
    One thing i want you to pay attention to is how simular the situation in my life is to yours...
    The girl is a friend i had previously who i took a break from after we ended up as friends.
    The girl is in a situation where she approaches me due to jealousy, much like what you want.
    The girl wants to impress me, which is what will happen to you if you can do everything i've talked about well.

    Remember no matter what happens you must NOT do anything AFC, you have already messed up with this girl twice and she remembers those a lot, if you aren't 100% perfect when she meets you a third time you have no chance.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    Quote Originally Posted by Salaami View Post
    Forget talking to her when you are there in the first place...

    As soon as you show up she is going to think it's because she is there, this will make her be very very un-open to you and you are going to have to struggle to get anywhere with her.

    What you need to do is go to the college, but when you get there just hang out with some people that you like, don't look her way, don't think about her, truly have fun with whoever you are with... The fun you are having will show on your face, and when she sees you there she is going to be jealous AND interested in you because of you obvious social standing.

    The ONLY reason you should talk to her when you are there is if she comes up to you (chances are she will), reply as if you were talking to an HB1.

    Example that happened to me today:
    (HB10 just walked over to me after an approach and my use of jealousy)
    Her: Hey what's up?
    Me: Not much you? (You need to understand how i say this, it's 100% polite, 100% respectful, but it shows NO interest in her at all, basically telling her that she needs to step it up if she wants my attention)
    At this point she actually grabs my arm and starts running the back of her hand up and down it while giving other various ioi's
    Me: Haha sweetie we aren't far enough in for you to do that to me yet.
    Her: Oh okay...
    Me: I love this kind of music (we are at a concert), how bout you?
    Her: Yea me too.
    Me: Want to dance? (step into keno)
    Her: Haha alright
    ...

    I have a d2 with this girl tomorrow...
    One thing i want you to pay attention to is how simular the situation in my life is to yours...
    The girl is a friend i had previously who i took a break from after we ended up as friends.
    The girl is in a situation where she approaches me due to jealousy, much like what you want.
    The girl wants to impress me, which is what will happen to you if you can do everything i've talked about well.

    Remember no matter what happens you must NOT do anything AFC, you have already messed up with this girl twice and she remembers those a lot, if you aren't 100% perfect when she meets you a third time you have no chance.
    Good point but I do not know anyone there at that college.
    + She will be just for her exam there and then disappear. If I miss her, I have to wait one another day, else the autumn.

    Thus I'm in big trouble. I have no other option than waiting her there.
    May be I have to talk with her like I'm not interested in her and have nothing to do until my "meet up" and thus I'm there just to kill time.

    Or she might be amazed by the surprise (me being there) and my new look and thus I have to be direct.

    I think it depends on her "smile" or "not smile" at first sight.
    Or may be I have to keep push-pull constantly. uhmm and there is something like that "do you know, my aunt told me that we are relatives, what a shame" just to cool it down for a while.
    Last edited by darkhorn; 05-04-2010 at 08:31 PM.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    I'm still saying don't approach her too directly, you don't want her to think that you are obsessed with her.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    dude you sound like a stalker, if she rejected you there was a reason for it. learn to realize when you have lost and learn from it. thats the only think i can tell. who would take a road trip just to see a girl that rejected you? a creep. saying that her friend might yell at you hints that we have some missing info here.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    Quote Originally Posted by Salaami View Post
    I'm still saying don't approach her too directly, you don't want her to think that you are obsessed with her.
    Okay, I'll be inderect, as much as possible.
    Quote Originally Posted by prjav View Post
    dude you sound like a stalker, if she rejected you there was a reason for it. learn to realize when you have lost and learn from it. thats the only think i can tell. who would take a road trip just to see a girl that rejected you? a creep. saying that her friend might yell at you hints that we have some missing info here.
    I don't care what ppl will call me. There is nothing to lost (neither her, nor me). I will feel guilty for not seeing her.
    "saying that her friend might yell at you hints that we have some missing info here"
    really nope, it's my worst scenario

    I'll do it anyway, just, I'm trying to increase my chance.
    Last edited by darkhorn; 05-05-2010 at 03:06 AM.

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    Default Re: I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    Dude you got some major oneidis! When you obsess over a girl like this you will never get her. II think what you really want is for us to tell you that your line is going to work perfectly and that your new style is going to win over the girl you have been dreaming of since last summer. And I agree you sound like a stalker. Got to know when to say no and hang it up. It's the hardest part of trying to be a pua.

    Sorry for being so rough

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    Default Re: I don't know what to write to the title, just help me.

    Quote Originally Posted by tcomea2 View Post
    Dude you got some major oneidis! When you obsess over a girl like this you will never get her. II think what you really want is for us to tell you that your line is going to work perfectly and that your new style is going to win over the girl you have been dreaming of since last summer. And I agree you sound like a stalker. Got to know when to say no and hang it up. It's the hardest part of trying to be a pua.

    Sorry for being so rough
    You want to say that there is no way? Even one?
    Duh, I'll go there definatly, I already know what will be the answer. I'll joke with her, Push-Pull. I already lost interest in her, I wonder to see what will be her reaction (I assume that she will be too negative, who cares, I'm not going there to harm her), was it a shi1t test or not. Because she was in my mind for a long time. My quesstion is "how to increase my chance?" not wheathe I should see her or not.
    Last edited by darkhorn; 05-05-2010 at 06:38 AM.


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