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    Default Friends zone or no???

    girl asked me and her friend to study, went out to eat she was playfully hitting me throughout the eating/study session, she was looking at dogs on the internet and kept tellin' me they were cute while squeezing my arm with her hand each time she thought one was cute and kept asking me if i thought they were cute. she said this doctor was cute and glanced at me...i didn't look at her (but i smiled) cause i had a feelin' she'd do this (was she tryin' to see if i'd get jealous or something)?...anyway s...do you ladies think she's interested?

    UPDATE, so she called me yesterday and we talked about the test for like a hour, then I asked her if she ate...she was like "nooooo" and I said "well lets go" she said "well i'm supposed to eat with my friend, but she hasn't called me back" i was in my car so i said "well figure it out in like 5 seconds cause BK is across the street and i'll just eat that if you don't want to." then she said "i have to let you go, i'll call you back when i call my friend." in the end she doesn't call back, but then she txted me later that night about some more school stuff, and texted me earlier today about more school stuff, then called me again today about more school stuff...hmm should I be persistent, or am I in the friend zone?

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    Default Re: Friends zone or no???

    Welcome to the friend zone.

    You're her study buddy...

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    Last edited by Bill Preston; 05-12-2010 at 03:18 PM.

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    Default Re: Friends zone or no???

    sorry to say but those things where she was looking at stuff and saying it was cute. would a girl do that with a guy she likes?..hell no. lol. but you can come back from this. Just cut contact with her and then when you come back be more alpha male, dont go into things where you cant Isolate or make any sort of moves cause then she is just enjoying your company and your going nowhere but the friend zone and then just all around be a pua. I mean unless thats too much work you can try and introduce some things to try and get out but it doesnt usually happen

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    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    sorry to say but those things where she was looking at stuff and saying it was cute. would a girl do that with a guy she likes?..hell no. lol. but you can come back from this. Just cut contact with her and then when you come back be more alpha male, dont go into things where you cant Isolate or make any sort of moves cause then she is just enjoying your company and your going nowhere but the friend zone and then just all around be a pua. I mean unless thats too much work you can try and introduce some things to try and get out but it doesnt usually happen

    Touche, yeah I've already cut contact. She's usually the one callin' me for stuff and what not...like last night when she called, she asked me if I was busy...I shoulda said yes, but....I said no..but I was pretty hesitant on saying no....Although here's another insight I just thought about, or maybe I'm in denial lol. You guys decide...I don't really talk to her, and she knows I'm not that bright, but she asked me to study with her and her friend anyways. We are taking the same class, but at different times.

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    Default Re: Friends zone or no???

    maybe she feels sorry for you if your not that bright... lol ok just joking around.... but couldnt pass it up

    You are in the friends zone buddy only way out is to cut her off completly and come back later. Much later

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    UPDATE:...So she texts me again saying she needs help with blah blah blah she needs me to do something...but it benefits both me and her. So I reply with "If I do it do I get a personal BJ from you?" She replies w/ "NO LOL, I literally laughed out loud while reading that." I replied w/ "Well...I'll do it sometime next week then." She replies w/ "Well we need it noooooooow." I reply w/ "BJ...?" She doesn't respond, for a few minutes then, I say "JK it'll get done." She replies w/ "No, I'll feed you!" "Thank you."....So I assume when I get the the thing that benefits both of us I'll tell her to come over my house and buy me food etc....good Idea to rekindle? What are your thoughts on our convo?

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    Default Re: Friends zone or no???

    Congrat u jumped through her hoop again. As for your text game I'll let crob help u there. He is better at that then me.
    Btw this won't benefit you it will just drop you further I to the friends zone. Like it has been said before if you have a romantic intrest in this girl you need to back off her rebuild your frame with higher value and try again. This isn't done over night.

    With that being said also remeber there us nothing wrong with having good girl friends. Some of my beat friends are beautful women and they enrich my life greatly and love playing wing woman.

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    study buddy dude. it seems you wish that we would tell your otherwise but search your feelings. the bj thing probably creeped her or at least was so out of her pattern that she stopped and was thrown. as she doesnt seem threatened by you she is probably confident that she can manage you.... she doesn't see you as sexual.

    then again i wouldn't even waste 15 minutes thinking about her or her motivations. you gotta let her know that she cant lead you around like that. you are gonna be disappointed and so is she but for different expectations the way things are going.

    let her go. you are giving your power to her. take it back man

    as the men said. cut off from her and if you run into her later.....

    go and source 10 more pieces of booty and get to work on em and don't let this one push her way in. you will be busy farking 10 other women

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    Default Re: Friends zone or no???

    Dude,
    Sometimes it's ok to just be friends: if you think about it, she could introduce you to other girls that you'll never meet if she wasn't your firend.
    BUT, if you want HER, then I suggest you take some time off, don't see her for awhile... do your thing... lose any sticking point like needyness n stuff...
    take care of business
    and come back in with that new level of improvement!

    ps. best of luck!

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    Default Re: Friends zone or no???

    Quote Originally Posted by john dice View Post
    Dude,
    Sometimes it's ok to just be friends: if you think about it, she could introduce you to other girls that you'll never meet if she wasn't your firend.
    BUT, if you want HER, then I suggest you take some time off, don't see her for awhile... do your thing... lose any sticking point like needyness n stuff...
    take care of business
    and come back in with that new level of improvement!

    ps. best of luck!
    roll them dice johnny boy. thata way.
    i like that you say take care of business. a player without game is kidding himself
    and yeah you get in one with one girl and meet all her mates..... Pivot
    be on the look out for opportunity. be alert, ready. don't be surprised when opportunity knocks


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