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  1. #1
    compgeni Guest

    Default School Setting, Talking with girl, getting IOIs, then nothing, is there a window?

    So I'm coming along in my skills.

    I noticed something. I was talking with separate girls after classes just outside the library on my campus. I can be talking with them, getting IOIs, they contribute to the conversation (the shyer ones I have to banter and share more before they do, which is OK). I will eventually say 'nice talking to you' and go about my business. The next day, or next week I will see them again and talk and not get near the positive response.

    I am familiar with the concept of buying temperature.

    Is there an "ask out/get my number window" for women? Like if I miss the window and leave it won't be back.

    One girl went cold, the others are still friendly but not near as interested.

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    Default Re: School Setting, Talking with girl, getting IOIs, then nothing, is there a window?

    lol well cause they were totally thinking of you getting there number...they are friendly but no positive response because they dont think your into them,.....and anytime is a good time for a Number Close...just before you leave...say something like" oh hey you are really cool and it would be amazing if we could hang out sometime" or some other blah blah blah. thats where your messing up. your building rapport, and comfort but then you dont go for the number. no matter what always go for the number close. good things take time, but the number close is standard. so next time just pull out your phone and ask for it, to get less resistance make jokes. like i had one and we had accidently run over the subject of Stripper names and then i just said "Ok i have to get your number, so when we are both done stripping we can go get some breakfast or something and pay with all ones, oh and you know im going to put you in my phone as vixen"...haha just fun and playful and i did a future projection and made plans with her. to follow through i took her out and did pay with all ones.

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    compgeni Guest

    Default Re: School Setting, Talking with girl, getting IOIs, then nothing, is there a window?

    So it seems I've taken the be willing to walk away thing too far.

    I want to make her laugh, qualify, laugh, number? correct? With minor variations given time, and conversation flow. The idea is to have a reason besides she's a hot chick to ask her for her number? What if she is already likes me due to whatever (that happens occasionally)? Do I still qualify?

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    Default Re: School Setting, Talking with girl, getting IOIs, then nothing, is there a window?

    yes to all. im my opinion at least


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