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    Default hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    after a while of not seeing her or talking to her, i decided to invite her for a pool game, and she replied "lol youre silly"
    which kinda told me to fuck off in a way.
    i didnt give up, next day i text her "hey goofy, join the silly boy for lunch tomorrow?"
    and she agreed, we set up the time at 11:30
    she texted me "should i text you when my class is done?"
    i said "yeah sure. meet up at X"
    and she said "sounds good "

    so, for those texts, i could tell that there are some ioi's going on and yeah i fucked up before with that girl but thats like another chance i thought.

    her class ends at 9:20 im pretty sure and thats why i took it as a big ioi that she will wait for 2 hours :/

    well guess what, she bailed without even saying anything or texting.
    at 11:30 i called her ans she didnt pick up.. its 2pm now and im pretty sure lunch is over by now and she either forgot or ignored it.
    but i mean, thats kinda rude in my opinion.. you can at least say "i changed my mind im not coming.." or "i have to leave because....." anything........

    why would she do that? is this her way of telling me "Fuck off, never call me again or bother texting cuz i dont want shit with you" ?

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    Default Re: hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    could be. could also be a lack of a time bridge to keep her intrest. If you let what yall had on the day of pick up slip past and dont take action she will forget andmove on to something bigger and better.

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    Default Re: hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    whip the dog session with this girl. let her know she screwed up but dont act needy or drama queen like.

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    Default Re: hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    Quote Originally Posted by prjav View Post
    whip the dog session with this girl. let her know she screwed up but dont act needy or drama queen like.
    so what should i do... text her: "Hey you goof, cant even keep up with a scheduled lunch with me.. your loss " ?
    or what should i say

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    Default Re: hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    im an asshole when it comes to this things. I dont take second class behavior from anyone. If you are not seeing her again and you dont run the chance of her cockblocking you, you can go far and make her into a better person by giving her some of her own medicine. i would tell her a lie, like i got a raise meet me at x(fanciest rest around) for some lobster, make her go there all dressed up and let her sit there and feel the shame of being stood up. i would later tell her to learn from that experience and feel what i felt. i guarantee she will not make plans when she cant meet em ever again.

    if you run the chance of bumping into her, then go the message way. yours seems too soft, be a little more aggressive, she has to feel bad for what she did. your message is like a pat on her hand. Dont be extreme or you will blow a lot of sets because of it. Remember no matter how hot this girl is, she doesnt deserve you and you should forget about her. shes showing her negative side already no need to investigate any further.

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    Default Re: hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    ok well yours is too soft and his Sh1t is harsh,...ill agree with what you said pjarv. u are an asshole...lol its all good. i would call her out but not make it seem like to much d1ck like. It would be that good balance of d1ck and thats not cool. I would probably put something like. "Ok flaky mcflakerson, you know they have support groups for this kind of thing right?lol..seriously though just let me know if your not going to make it. You seem really cool, i would hate to have to divorce you already"
    that shows its not cool and that you dont stand for that Sh1t but also that ur not a d1ck

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    Default Re: hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    Phavrs is harsh but that's his frame.

    You need to nut up here but make it congruent with who you are. Don't be weak or she will do it again without a second though.

    I think the question that should be asked is why did she flake. Address that issue within your game and flakes won't happen.

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    Default Re: hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    if i hate something is being stood up and ignored like nothing happened. its something that i cant stand, whenever it has happened to me ive made sure it never happens again. If somebody does it twice the asshole comes out . Btw im not that bad but i seriously tell them the first time that it sucks and if they cant they must be honest and tell me they cant. im all fun and games until i get to that point and when they see my serious side they know its something not to mess with.

    ohh i also like to go hard on HB10s because most of the times they feel like they are queens of the world and somebody has to smack them off their high horse.

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    Default Re: hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    Quote Originally Posted by prjav View Post
    im an asshole when it comes to this things. I dont take second class behavior from anyone. If you are not seeing her again and you dont run the chance of her cockblocking you, you can go far and make her into a better person by giving her some of her own medicine. i would tell her a lie, like i got a raise meet me at x(fanciest rest around) for some lobster, make her go there all dressed up and let her sit there and feel the shame of being stood up. i would later tell her to learn from that experience and feel what i felt. i guarantee she will not make plans when she cant meet em ever again.

    if you run the chance of bumping into her, then go the message way. yours seems too soft, be a little more aggressive, she has to feel bad for what she did. your message is like a pat on her hand. Dont be extreme or you will blow a lot of sets because of it. Remember no matter how hot this girl is, she doesnt deserve you and you should forget about her. shes showing her negative side already no need to investigate any further.
    here is the problem, i would totally do that and tell her to meet me at X but I know she just wont go there. At first when the attraction was still there, and i wanted to go on a date with her, i offered coming picking her up and go and she always agreed but we never ended up going cuz she bailed and once i bailed cuz i felt like she would if i didnt. the whole time i know her we went for lunch after class once (which i paid for) and drove her home.
    its 100% my fault. i just returned to be an AFC once i felt like she is giving me ioi's.
    her beauty took over me and i was worried to loose her, once i lost her, i realized how bad i fucked up and wanted a second chance just to see if i can still get her and if not whatever..
    so i tried once more and here we are.. she bailed without even telling.

    i think i should text her something that will show that im mad, and this is not acceptable but at the same time, she could take me out and treat me for dinner (and thats where i dont show up) but again, i highly doubt she will agree to that. she wont even come when i offer the treat :/

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    Default Re: hb10 bailed on me without even saying/texting

    do what i did(lil different cause she was engaged :P lol) cut your loses short and get a new HB. its the best solution. think about something in case you run into her or if a lot of time passes just greet her and keep going if she does first if not act as if you didnt saw her and take her off your life. you are better off without her.


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