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  1. #11
    afckid Guest

    Default Re: Totally new to this

    gee thanks for that long post. im going to watch a vid on inner game.

    Not sure what peacocking is but i dont really work in a retail store unfortunately. I pretty much sit around in my dads new buisiness which is a barber sop. so i have to walk around the mall to get ladies because females dont usually get their hair cut(so i cant use those lines).

    i do work out routinely but i have been slacking lately. Yes im physically fit. Ive been lifting for about 4 years.

  2. #12
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    Default Re: Totally new to this

    also guys. How should i go about opening on sets. Thats my biggest fear. A group of girls were checking me out(pointing) but im not sure how to handle more than one chick.

    what are some starter openers for sets?

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    Default Re: Totally new to this

    peacocking is refering to rhar badmedicale was talking about. Conversation starters with your clothing or hats. Search it on here I'm sure there have been threads on it.

    As for openings start with this. Walk around today making eye contact with every single person you meet. Say hello and smile. Guys and girls. Don't so much worry about openers and what not, Just get past the aa. Doing this will help. Baby steps.

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    UPDATE: was passing out flyers for my job blah blah blah. Pass em out to the ladies and greet them. 1 set gave me convo. (I work in the mall remember. Not all the time am i passing out flyers dont get that idea. But when i wasnt i was just trying to talk to this HB 10.5 and i failed again.She was walking and i didnt have much time to say anything and couldnt think of what to say anyway. Hmm she only said hi back and then cut into a clothing store.

    Ok do u guys approve of these openers(i wrote these down from other threads)?

    -hey baby,I wanna put my thingy in your thingy(jokingly of course)

    -If your gonna undress me with you eyes atleast make it less obvious.

    thats it so far. If you have any other suggestions for noobs greatly appreciated.

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    lmao no those are horrible!! haha i mean i guess those are ok for direct openers but only if ur sure you know the target well and she would laugh..more than likely she is going to think your creepy. maybe you should practice doing direct, indirect, and opinionated openers. personally i find indirect and opinionated to have less aa but lots of girls seem to respond to my direct openers. do whatever you feel is more comfortable and will work more

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    Default Re: Totally new to this

    Quote Originally Posted by afckid View Post
    -hey baby,I wanna put my thingy in your thingy(jokingly of course)
    Seriously?

    Maybe if you were running a bombing opener or something like that and had the experience and talent to back it up but for a newbie no way!

    Here is the thing with an opener: all it is designed to do is to get you in the door. If you cant follow it up by DVH or dlv then your screwed. You have to know the whole thing in order to make it work. YOu might get lucky and fall into foolsmate but even this isnt likely. This is why i keep saying this: you have to work on yourself first! If you dont then all you will be is a person who can open any set and get blown out of most of them never closing. I dont know how many more times i can say it, focus on inner game first! Get yourself ready, then you can work on openers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcomea2 View Post
    Seriously?

    Maybe if you were running a bombing opener or something like that and had the experience and talent to back it up but for a newbie no way!

    Here is the thing with an opener: all it is designed to do is to get you in the door. If you cant follow it up by DVH or dlv then your screwed. You have to know the whole thing in order to make it work. YOu might get lucky and fall into foolsmate but even this isnt likely. This is why i keep saying this: you have to work on yourself first! If you dont then all you will be is a person who can open any set and get blown out of most of them never closing. I dont know how many more times i can say it, focus on inner game first! Get yourself ready, then you can work on openers.
    that is true but while he is woring on inner game he needs to work on Approach Anxiety and maybe get his feet wet. of course he will more than likely not close properly but it helps him get a little comfortable with women while improving his inner game

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    Default Re: Totally new to this

    It's not his feet he wants to get wet. Lmao couldn't pass it up!!

    I don't disagree but running bombers isn't going to do that. And for an indirect to work we must have other things to follow up with. My point is this: All he seems to be worried about is opening and there is far more to it then hey let me get your opinion on something. And I think that focusing on those things improves opening. Just my opinion.

  9. #19
    afckid Guest

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    ok so im back again. im not gonna say im cured 100% on aa but i dont think im worried about that as much as follow up.

    im not sure what dhv or dlv is but i tried opening on 3 more hbs and had no followup. I got lucky on one set who gave me convo ,they were kind of dominant(actually im attracted to that).

    how do i get those hb mostly 9-10 to open up. they kinda look like they are interested(body language) but give me dry responses. I open up like a book if a female opens on me or gives me convo without doing routines or w/e(i guess this is true because its the only way ive been able to talk to the ladies)


    what i plan to do right now: find out and read on inner game, dlv, dhv.

  10. #20
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    Quote Originally Posted by afckid View Post
    Ugh where to start. Basic info(embarrasing to put this out there, but then again this is the interwebz).


    -virgin

    -18 y/o

    -attractive

    -black(not a bad thing just sayin)

    -no dates/kisses

    Basically from what i noticed now that i have a job in the mall. I do have severe aa. I stare Hbs down all the time but i dont say anything. Just freeze up n look at em. Honestly i wont even lie i probably am a boring person and i dont have low self esteem its just true. I w ould like to tell chicks crazy stories or whatever but honestly i dont have any as all ive done my life is work/toke. Im kinda wondering where to start. I work in the mall so there are HB everywhere.

    Basically im just looking to get my meat wet asap. I dont care about other Sh1t because im not even sure of my sexuality(def not gay just hetero or perhaps asexual). Not 21 so i cant go into the bar.



    what i plan on doing so far.

    - I looked at a thread about a guy sayin its a good idea to keep a notepad of fun things to talk about(so i bought one) what are some of things you suggest i put in there to keep a conversation nice and flowing .

    -Openers. Ok read a post where a guy uses "tell me the worst way you would reject me blah blah blah" so i guess it makes you comfortable with getting rejected. Im going to try this but today i also forced my self to try to say "hello how are you doing" to the hbs i seen walking by. Im fairly attractive so most of the time the ladies put the head down walking by me. For now im only comfortable saying hello to girls i make eye contact with. Is this okay , do most guys do this? about 3/4 chicks today responded(not with convo but with "fine" . Ok what are some routine or openers to say JUST INCASE a female gives me some play after i say hello. I dont want my mind being blank.

    any/all advice appreciated

    mike
    i like you mate. you know why??
    because you have a H O W attitude. that is Honest, Open Minded, and Willing
    i think your willingness is gonna get you a long way mate

    stay willing and work on yourself just one day at a time. You are young mate and have the world at your feet. You don't need to be in any hurry. Just live for today bro. Keep out of trouble and keep working on yourself.

    just your attitude alone could make you a huge success.

    some people get all the tricks and techniques but lack the attitude. don't worry mate. hang in there and give your self a break from time to time


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