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  1. #21
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    Default Re: Totally new to this

    Hey, I used to toke constantly.. and one day I realized that it was causing major anxiety. I never got girls back then. Since I rarely toke anymore, I feel much more comfortable in a conversation. I'm far from a PUA but know how tokin and anxiety went hand in hand 4 me. I still have anxiety sometimes but I'm so much more social than I was tokin. It might sound crazy but try not smokin til your home for the night. It might help.

  2. #22
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    Quote Originally Posted by Budco83 View Post
    Hey, I used to toke constantly.. and one day I realized that it was causing major anxiety. I never got girls back then. Since I rarely toke anymore, I feel much more comfortable in a conversation. I'm far from a PUA but know how tokin and anxiety went hand in hand 4 me. I still have anxiety sometimes but I'm so much more social than I was tokin. It might sound crazy but try not smokin til your home for the night. It might help.
    i lost any semblance of game for years til i stopped toking (and drinking) the drinking helped me pick up early on as AFC but once the green really got involved = goodbye girls.

    i haven't touched it in years. i find playing a natural spiritual approach works for me. a relationship of any sort is spiritual so we dhv by remaining open and clean. we DHV by not needing those social agents when others need them to socialise. People see us as strong and in control of ourselves

  3. #23
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    i fucked up bad.

    well heres a brief update. Friend made a bet that i couldnt get a chicks number (i would win 20)We are in the mall btw.I saw a set of 3 from afar and told them to come upstairs to meet me. i was lookin down on them from the second floor. When they arrived yea she introduced herself. I could tell something was wrong but hey i wanted the 20$. I noticed one of her friends was a friend of mine from highschool. Second thing she talked to me about was Buying her a 2$ pretzel. Normally i would say no because i rarely care about pua in the first place but i wanted money and maybe i thought just maybe i would get a day 2. I told her i was gettin her number from the start btw. anyway conversation was just dry pretty much the whole time.she gave me a fake number and i checked on facebook thats not even her name.

    I think i might just stay away from pua, idk im just not cut out for it. Hopefully i can just meet some1 genuinely in school or somethin. I feel like i have to have a reason to talk to people in public unfortunately. Im not really into courting females to be honest.

    ill probably go after girls that give me the ioi or clearly show they are interested first.

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    Default Re: Totally new to this

    lol thats the thing about pick up. it takes lots of practice and deligence. if you didnt think you would start out getting rejected and all that. you were wrong, at first this is testing. but it tests you on being alpha male. How about this, keep studying and practicing for 2 months and actively trying. If you dont start to get some numbers and dates then maybe pick up isnt for you, but if you do ill help you as much as possible and give you lots of the stuff and secrets that helped me. i dont want you to give up, just think about those guys who get all the women. they didnt do it quickly, they have gotten rejected but why it doesnt phaze them is because they just say fuck her and move on, she probably isnt that amazing anyways. you need to learn how to get rejected. how about a new project to get over aa and getting rejected. i want you to go up to girls, without letting them know, and try to get rejected as hard as possible. maybe tell them after that you trying to get over your fear of being rejected or something but not until then. i want you to basically always get the rejection hotline and fake names cause you fuck up so hard. this will help with AA and help you look at rejection as a joke and no big deal. you probably think to far into things, man this girl is cool i cant wait to take her out. live the moment
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    Default Re: Totally new to this

    How do you get them to open up? Well transation questions. Things like in a mixed set you can ask how does every one know each other. This can give you some great info as well. Stacking openers works well so. If they are not contributing to the conversation the set isn't hooked and you can't really go anywhere without them being hooked.

    Qualifying always gets them to open up but you must understand and be able to dhv

    Sounds like your on the right track. Make sure your getting to a hook point with your sets as you expand your knowledge

  6. #26
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    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    lol thats the thing about pick up. it takes lots of practice and deligence. if you didnt think you would start out getting rejected and all that. you were wrong, at first this is testing. but it tests you on being alpha male. How about this, keep studying and practicing for 2 months and actively trying. If you dont start to get some numbers and dates then maybe pick up isnt for you, but if you do ill help you as much as possible and give you lots of the stuff and secrets that helped me. i dont want you to give up, just think about those guys who get all the women. they didnt do it quickly, they have gotten rejected but why it doesnt phaze them is because they just say fark her and move on, she probably isnt that amazing anyways. you need to learn how to get rejected. how about a new project to get over aa and getting rejected. i want you to go up to girls, without letting them know, and try to get rejected as hard as possible. maybe tell them after that you trying to get over your fear of being rejected or something but not until then. i want you to basically always get the rejection hotline and fake names cause you fark up so hard. this will help with AA and help you look at rejection as a joke and no big deal. you probably think to far into things, man this girl is cool i cant wait to take her out. live the moment
    it is true. takes a lot of crashing and burning before you get a little success then a little more.
    if it were easy everyone would be doing it and making a success of their lives in every department. show me a man who has never made a mistake and i will show you a man who has never made anything

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    Quote Originally Posted by afckid View Post
    I think i might just stay away from pua, idk im just not cut out for it. Hopefully i can just meet some1 genuinely in school or somethin. I feel like i have to have a reason to talk to people in public unfortunately. Im not really into courting females to be honest.
    Dude! Donít quit. It doesnít happen overnight man! We all have been there, rejection happens. Jus cause you are having some sticking points doesnít mean that you cant push through them. I promise it will get better if you stick to it. If something isnít working try something else. Try a new pattern, a new dvh, a new neg, something. Its not going to work 100% of the time till you get calibrated and I guarantee myself, crob, Bill (well maybe not bill), coyote we all get rejected sometimes. Happens dude. Pick yourself up and move of. I was told as a kid that its not the mistakes that make the difference, its what your learn from them thatís important. Learn, move on.

    Now pick your chin up and stop acting like an AFCmetro!

  8. #28
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    update again:

    haha got rejected as i was told. And check this. It was by the same girl in the set i posted about earlier when i met them in the mall. I will admit my opener was shitty but i thought i could just say hey come here as if she would remeber me.

    Me: "heyyyyyyy..... "

    her: turns around

    "hey i wanna talk to you"(trying to get her attention, i quickly chose this opener because she was far away, we were at the pool and it was kinda loud)

    Her:she fanned me off.

    Me: "dont you remeber me"

    her: "i dont know you"(walks away)



    it might be possible she might not recognize me because i cut my hair off real low and didnt really show her any dhv during the 1 min of conversation i had with her in the mall.

    i was kinda mad/sad because i failed but also because i kinda liked her even without knowing her. btw shes a HB10.5 then im glad i got rejected because i chose to give pua another chance.

    anybody can give me a better opener you can say to a chick u met up with again when u only had small talk with her.

    or better yet just a good opener for a noob.

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    yeah fuck her she is a stuck up bitch...if i were there as ur wing i would pick her up, fuck the shit out of her and basically be all kinds of disrespectful and blow my load all over her face, take a picture and just bounce out. haha and then show some people just so she is a joke among people hahaha
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    Default Re: Totally new to this

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    yeah fark her she is a stuck up bitch...if i were there as ur wing i would pick her up, fark the Sh1t out of her and basically be all kinds of disrespectful and blow my load all over her face, take a picture and just bounce out. haha and then show some people just so she is a joke among people hahaha

    damn dude.


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