Ugh where to start. Basic info(embarrasing to put this out there, but then again this is the interwebz).
-black(not a bad thing just sayin)
Basically from what i noticed now that i have a job in the mall. I do have severe aa. I stare Hbs down all the time but i dont say anything. Just freeze up n look at em. Honestly i wont even lie i probably am a boring person and i dont have low self esteem its just true. I w ould like to tell chicks crazy stories or whatever but honestly i dont have any as all ive done my life is work/toke. Im kinda wondering where to start. I work in the mall so there are HB everywhere.
Basically im just looking to get my meat wet asap. I dont care about other Sh1t because im not even sure of my sexuality(def not gay just hetero or perhaps asexual). Not 21 so i cant go into the bar.
what i plan on doing so far.
- I looked at a thread about a guy sayin its a good idea to keep a notepad of fun things to talk about(so i bought one) what are some of things you suggest i put in there to keep a conversation nice and flowing .
-Openers. Ok read a post where a guy uses "tell me the worst way you would reject me blah blah blah" so i guess it makes you comfortable with getting rejected. Im going to try this but today i also forced my self to try to say "hello how are you doing" to the hbs i seen walking by. Im fairly attractive so most of the time the ladies put the head down walking by me. For now im only comfortable saying hello to girls i make eye contact with. Is this okay , do most guys do this? about 3/4 chicks today responded(not with convo but with "fine" . Ok what are some routine or openers to say JUST INCASE a female gives me some play after i say hello. I dont want my mind being blank.
any/all advice appreciated