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    rjc149 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default The -sshole Approach

    It is a well known fact that hot girls like -ssholes. Not because they like being treated like Sh1t, but because men who are likely to treat them like Sh1t generally embody very attractive traits to them.

    Most of the PUA stuff advocates more of a fun and flirty approach, almost based on sexual ambiguity. Mehow, Style, Mystery, these guys could easily come off as gay. It's part of their strategy.

    What about the -sshole approach? And I don't mean being playfully teasing, I mean actually being an obnoxious asshole from the get-go. It works on campuses, but does it work in bars and clubs in the real world?

    How do you act like an -sshole at a bar? I'm a nice guy at heart, and I'm actually really curious as to what makes an asshole tick.

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    Default Re: The -sshole Approach

    Quote Originally Posted by rjc149 View Post
    It is a well known fact that hot girls like -ssholes. Not because they like being treated like Sh1t, but because men who are likely to treat them like Sh1t generally embody very attractive traits to them.

    Most of the PUA stuff advocates more of a fun and flirty approach, almost based on sexual ambiguity. Mehow, Style, Mystery, these guys could easily come off as gay. It's part of their strategy.

    What about the -sshole approach? And I don't mean being playfully teasing, I mean actually being an obnoxious asshole from the get-go. It works on campuses, but does it work in bars and clubs in the real world?

    How do you act like an -sshole at a bar? I'm a nice guy at heart, and I'm actually really curious as to what makes an asshole tick.
    Kind of depends how you define "ss hole" maybe your generalising a bit too much maybe you think the the guys jerk/sshole guy is treating woman badly and getting them as you say because he is acting obnoxious.

    Personally ain't an sshole ha however my style if you like is towards being alpha confident cocky funny very direct fairly dominant in interactions in a club scene.Now maybe to different woman that may give the impression that I'm an sshole and obviously there is all kinds of woman so your going to get alot of mixed responses as ppl do in that club environment whichever style/material you use to some degree.

    Guessing want to be more alpha type or bad boy game.Dont know you personally..easy to just say to you... start becoming that guy full stop.However its ongoing process like most self development have work at it.Maybe its being more confident in the clubs..or working out gym feeling confidence take with you there or improving your style clothing etc besides working on your game.

    Found in my experiences also sometimes get labelled as one night stand material or player by women which isnt so much a bad thing. Just tone it down for various scenarios daygame and venues other places. Depend what you want from the interactions anyway Some info dude!

    Cheers

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    Default Re: The -sshole Approach

    RCJ - check out my friend Carlos Xuma's product.

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