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  1. #1
    Burner05 Guest

    Default i just met this girl through mutual friends

    hi guys im a noob to the PUA life and want to be a part of it so i can get ahead of the competition (jus turned 20 in college). anyways i went bak to one of the campuses (big college) that i normally attended since i got alot of friends there and happend to see a pretty cute girl there talking with some of my friends...long story short, i assessed the situation and saw that theres huge competition for her (5 guys including myself are going after her) and i wanted to see how i can separate her from them and how i shood approach the situation. another thing too, one of the guys looks like hes getting little by little closer to her (even tho they both jus met) but IMO it looked more like he was doing a couple of mistakes or rather not following the generally accepted pikup methods...wood i have a chance?

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    Default Re: i just met this girl through mutual friends

    LOL ok well that totally seemed like a seller if i have ever seen one. he was trying to be genuine while trying to get you to check out something and then disqualified like he was a satisfied customer. OK well if you dont want to spend money on it i can help you along with tons of others like Bill, tcomea2, and Pjarv. I see them on here regularly and they are good.
    But ok first thing first, i would try to find out what type of girl she is. Check out my post on pandoras box and cold reading. It is a huge post and super long but it will hep you understand a girl to her very core. But obviously since you can tell right off the bat, i want you to read it so when you do open you can figure these things out.
    Ok you either have to know a friend and can meet her mutually or you have to open her like any other random girl. Those are the only 2 ways. If you can meet her through friends and maybe get talked up like wingman status, good on you. if not, you have to show her what you can offer that other guys cannot. Lots of women see the usual. But what do you have and can offer that other guys cant. Is it that your funny, charming, original, etc.
    But if you cannot get a friend to get you guys to meet up what you need to do is open her. I would more than likely do it when she is alone or with few friends. You dont want a group of people trying to fuck with your game. Best case is one on one. Worst case to even try and open for new being new i would say is 3. You have to decide what is the best way to approach. I would stick to indirect and situational. Maybe even just opinionated. I think your best bet for a group is opinionated cause then they will talk. But when you talk you want to make sure that you notice your target more than any others of them. and when you have balls in front of her friends it shows. Like just straight asking for her number will be like, "wow, this guy is confident enough and interested enough in me to ask in front of 4 of my friends. WOW". So being confident and alpha is a key.
    Ok if you open indirect, keep going with good solid conversation, tease her very playfully. Neg her a bit. tonight i ended up negging a girl about her dream car being a Jeep grand cheorkee. My god. that is no dream at all..lol but yeah negged her playfully and man was she laughing and digging on me. So you want to make her laugh and neg her a bit.
    Next thing is being memorable and different and connecting positive feelings to that. the best way is to build rapport and get something unique you guys have. Maybe nick names, pronouncing her name wierd with a smile on ur face knowing you know how to say it correctly. like anything you want to be different and stand out.
    *KEY. dont worry about the other guys. AFC's worry. you dont want to show a controlling, jealous side. that is a turn off to women. Ok after having a good opening and doing DHV stories and teasing you need to go for the Number Close. If you havent already made a nick name this is a perfect time to easily get her number and lower the Bitch Shield. something like "you seem like a really cool chick, we should exchange numbers and ill invite you out to ___( some event whether its the club or something). Oh btw, if we exchange numbers we have to make awesome nicknames for each other in our phone." great way to build rapport, be memorable, and then every time you text or call she is reminded of the great time with you and positive feelings will always follow that.
    Ok well after opening and getting the number, what you need to work on is ur text game. Text game is kind of a big thing. tons of women text and they always have their phone. if ur text game is strong it will be better for you. I have a word document on text game if you message me privately i can think about giving that to you.
    Then the next thing is taking her out. you should read bills post on first date blueprint. that is such a great thing. but yeah when you take her out you need to have some sort of guide lines.
    *if you have been so much fun up to this point and very fun and different, the date needs to display the same thing. when she says yes to a date she is saying yes to possiblilites. so she is looking for you to take her on an adventure of what it would be like to be with you. Do u want to dissapoint her. hell no. so make it fun, different, and then also be somewhat romantic and build tons of sexual tension.
    After that its pretty much all you. you need to kiss close and then just keep rolling with it.
    I hope this helped.

    Good luck bro

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    Default Re: i just met this girl through mutual friends

    Ok a few things.

    First : Dont listen to the sales man. Unless what your looking for is meaningless sex with a few women. I can walk you through foolsmate and save you the money.

    Second: Crob thanks for even lumping me in with bill yourself and pjarv.

    Third: Crob gave you a great format to follow. There are tons of formulas out there that will get you to the same goal. Tric is to find which method works well for you. Some guys don't like to neg, Others like crob and myself do it like crazy. With that said an indirect or situational is the way to go here if you have to do an approach. Key thing in this set is if you have other guys trying for her as well, You need to disqualify yourself. Maybe a neg about how y'all would never work cause of x. Then you dhv and hit her attraction circuit. This makes her want to chase you. And this us where you want to be. If she is working for you your in.

    There is a huge post about neggs check it out. cold reading too.

    Good luck dude. Let us know what we can do to help.


    Ps. Be the alpha!

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    Burner05 Guest

    Default Re: i just met this girl through mutual friends

    all of that info was awesome especially Bills game plan it sounds ridiculous (in a good way) but unfortunately i think one of the other guys got to her first since today the same group of people went to the beach (i coodnt go cuz of my job) and i heard thru one of my friends that they hooked up...o well good learning experience either way

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    Default Re: i just met this girl through mutual friends

    So? If you want it go get it. That's an AFC statement to say youcant. A pua says I can and I will.

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    Default Re: i just met this girl through mutual friends

    lol yeah come on. if she hooks up she isnt head over heels and knows he is the one. all you have to do is be better than him. I guarantee that fool is probably an AFC anyways. i had a guy the other night talking himself up like im going to fuck this girl so hard tonight. then while im dealing poker, i see him following her around and she looks bored. and being the sly mother fucker i am. i changed dealers with my boy and ended up dealing her table and bam. stole her like nothing and pulled the number. even though i am going for a chick right now i cant always have all my eggs in one basket. i have her as a backup. lol but yeah. i guarantee you can probably steal her. first thing is get in there. open her and close with the number. and when you close make it memorable and leave when her attraction is at a peak.

    PS by the way, tcomea you, bill, pjarv and i are all good with this and can always help the new guys here...what up!!! haha

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    john dice Guest

    Default Re: i just met this girl through mutual friends

    if there are other guys interested they're defo lavishing her with compliments and attention.

    Instead, you can be fun when you're with her but act like you don't need her: talk to other people TOO when she's in the same room, have fun and don't let her get to you.

    when she sees you don't need her, while everybody else is after her, she'll want you!

    good luck dude!


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