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    thatboysam Guest

    Default Should/how do i approach?

    Hey, i'm new to the forums, but from what i read guys here seem awfully helpful.

    So i've been noticing this girl who's pretty cute in my homeroom. I havn't actually talked to her much, but i have been around her talking to her friends for a little bit. But for the past month or so i get the feeling she's kinda looking at me, we would make eye contact but not really say anything. And about a month ago i lost my phone so i made a facebook group to get people's numbers and i said if i never had it you can just ignore it, and she put her number there! Is that a big hint? It seems like it to me I mean how often do girls put their numbers on guy's walls who they havn't talked to before?

    EDIT: I can't really talk to her in homeroom because she is always surrounded by a bunch of her girlfriends.
    Last edited by thatboysam; 05-30-2010 at 02:42 AM.

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    john dice Guest

    Default Re: Should/how do i approach?

    When you're at a party or with some friends and she's there, when it's not weird to do so, talk to her: have a fun (but neutral) conversation and see how she responds.

    If she seems to listen and smile then you can try to escalate.

    Best of luck!

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    Default Re: Should/how do i approach?

    wooh ok. no u dont need to wait for a party. when she drops her number on you when you never had it you could totally just go into talking to her. and if u feel nervous to open her up in class first, shit just open her up through the phone. and then it will be a lot easier to open her in the class room. Try even making a joke over text. i would try something clever and funny like "Hey most people dont actually text a girl unless they ask for her number, so since i didnt ask i cant contact you. So this is me not contacting you lol . this is ___ btw" then when she replies you could make the situation funny and just say. "ok well i wasnt quite sure what to do. obviously you kind of like stalking me , but since ur attractive im ok with that. we will just act like everything is all good "

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    Default Re: Should/how do i approach?

    this allows you to compliment her, neg her and show her your unique sense of humor all while opening her up and then preparing the situation for some sexual tension building and rapport building later on. like even just in the morning you could say "Hey good morning stalker face, this was wierd i swear i saw you staring at my butt the other day at/in the ___. lol" this is a fun roleplaying thing that makes for good jokes and open your pick up for tons of differnet ways to take this. and since she will know you have fun roleplaying with her, you guys can go into different stuff that really helps her get attracted. like i did one where i roleplayed like she was my wife and i was going to divorce her if she doesnt change. this shows that i have standards she needs to live up to, she starts jumping through my hoops and then i also can build tons of sexual tension. i even joke around and say something like "ok wifey, i really care about you and your so much fun, but the sex needs to change. LOL we need to make it an amazing time when we decide to jump on the good feet and do the bad thing "

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    Default Re: Should/how do i approach?

    Nice crob that's good stuff.

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    thatboysam Guest

    Default Re: Should/how do i approach?

    Thanks for the advice crobinson, im gona try that

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    Default Re: Should/how do i approach?

    thanks guys. text game is something i love trying new things with. sometimes its great and sometimes it just crahses and burns. but try that out today and give an update with the entire conversation and we will see where she stands. oh and trust me. roleplaying is the shit

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    thatboysam Guest

    Default Re: Should/how do i approach?

    i just kinda talked to her, i started kinda like you did, i was like hey, i just saw you put your number on my group so i figured the least i could is say hi. ANd she was like thats a good way to start a convoo . But she responded kinda slow and then she just stopped replying. What should i do? o.o

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    Default Re: Should/how do i approach?

    lol do you think that sounds different, exciting and something she would like or does that sound like an AFC wrote that

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    thatboysam Guest

    Default Re: Should/how do i approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    lol do you think that sounds different, exciting and something she would like or does that sound like an AFC wrote that
    lol sorry, i didnt quite catch that


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