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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    If i were to tell a dhv story should it correspond to the opinionated question I just asked?

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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    Sure if you can make that association run with it.

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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    yeah but that sort of question isnt that bad. i mean the best thing i have seen sometimes is using a usual question a girl get but then switching it up to shock her system and show her ur different. something like "what do you do" she will answer with her job or school and you say oh come on are we going to be boring not what do u do for work/school what do you do for fun. that can move into neg her using false disqualifiers while also qualifying her and building her attraction to you. usually opinionated is good to start the chat and then as you talk to her have dhv stories for them. i mean even just switching the beginning. i have one that i can switch for tons of shit where i tell a story...lets say i talking to a waitress...i say i used to work for applebees or some crap and hated how my clothes always smelled like food, then tell a story about going to get a girl friend that just broke up with her man from a club like an hour away and she was worried and lost. and blah blah blah but then put that joke in the end and her say that she hungry cause the smell of my clothes when i carried her inside to make sure she got to bed ok. it has tons of HV's and you can change it. lets say she is only a student, say you had to leave calc, if she is a pro poker player, say you had to muck your chip lead to go get her. you can change one story to fit tons of shit.haha but best thing is just open her, talk to her, be different, make her laugh, neg a little like teasing, Kino, and then Number Close not only at the end but any time in between. lets say you decide this girl is a relationship girl or an investor so future projection would be good, after you discuss the future projection go for the number close. haha its not hard just be on your feet to make wity and funny comments

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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    Here is another I have thought of

    I go up to her and ask her what her favorite dinosaur is. When she answers I'll slip in a neg like "oh so you're that type of person it's ok I don't mind" and/or I could tell a dhv story about the time over spring break when I was hanging out with my cousin who is a deep sea diving instructor and who got bit by a shark while we were diving an tell her that I had to help him up to the surface and we took him to the hospital. And thn tell her about a month of rejuvenating his injury and him complaining about wanting to go divng again, that he ended up breaking his ankle walking out of his house. Then like crob mentioned and I can ask her what she does and the "no I mean what do you for fun". After she answers possible false disqualifier such as "it will never work out between us". Then I can do the cube and then Number Close.

    I'm not sure how to false disqualify her and make her qualified so an explanation would be helpful

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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    lol ok well false disqualifier you did was ok but totally setup you need to just do it randomly maybe to something you actually disagree with. its not bad to disagree.. lets say you get onto a topic like how a guy always has to text a girl first to talk. you disagree and say " ok well if your going to be one of those girls where i always have to text you first, we arent working out i may as well divorce you now before you get too invested and i break your heart" that was pretty good. shit i came up with that just now. haha not to rev my own engine or anything. but yeah false disqualify and then lets say you ask her a fun question like "if you could go anywhere in the world at this very moment, just get on a plane or drive whereever, where would it be" then causally ask why. to qualfiy her. lets say she says she wants to go to greece. thats pretty adventurous and spontaneous. so tell her that just be like " wow thats really adventurous and spontaneous of you. most people these days start to lose their sense of adventure and spontaneity, maybe it will work between us. but dont get it twisted, one wrong move and your gone."
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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    crobinson1 is right on everything except for one...only rappers can say "don't get it twisted" lol
    i'd say "don't get to comfortable ...."

    but seriously, you gotta be natural with it. tell them that "its not gonna happen between us(because of some specific detail) and its too bad" because it catches them totally offgaurd especially if they are attractive. don't use this one on the low self-esteem girls! but you gotta work the angle that you will accept her even with her "flaw" i rarely get rejected with that angle.

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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    no the thing about dont get it twisted is that its funny and it helps be fun and not too interested. yeah and working that angle works a lot. like "ok well even though you have to do blah blah blah, i can try to work with it" ps by the way dont get it twisted i pick bitches up with that line.haha
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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    I understand everything else except having a smooth nd effective opener. I feel like it would be creepy if I just went up to her and asked her what her favorite dinosaur is. How could I do this?

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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    lol personally i dont like the dinosaur thing, but if you think it would work go for it, and maybe even a preopener. On cold approaches i use preopeners like "hey do you know if they have an armani exchange in this mall?" just asking for some info...then just open her.
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    Default Re: HELP PLEASE!!!!

    i dont really like the dinosaur thing either it was just an idea.


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