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    Question some guidance needed

    okay, i make a rough *outline* after reading that one dudes game plan post, and I thought it looked good, but I tried it in class today and it started out bad, I couldn't seem to get her attention away from the other guys talking to her, so I kinda barreled through, using some jk magic tricks for dhv, then once I tried the cube I had her completely focused on me, it didn't last long and I failed with the picture routine(apparently she doesn't like her picture taken) idk if I wasn't negging and ignoring her enough or what, and what can I do to start out with a bang??

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    Default Re: some guidance needed

    Quote Originally Posted by moncivais View Post
    okay, i make a rough *outline* after reading that one dudes game plan post, and I thought it looked good, but I tried it in class today and it started out bad, I couldn't seem to get her attention away from the other guys talking to her, so I kinda barreled through, using some jk magic tricks for dhv, then once I tried the cube I had her completely focused on me, it didn't last long and I failed with the picture routine(apparently she doesn't like her picture taken) idk if I wasn't negging and ignoring her enough or what, and what can I do to start out with a bang??

    First of all, props for going for it.

    The first thing you need to realize is that you are in a classroom environment, not a club. You don't have to cold approach her, and you don't have to rely on canned stuff. You also don't have to grab her all in one session. You likely overwhelmed her by getting nervous then hitting her with three routines, which undoubtedly weren't all well situated with the vibes she was giving off.

    In a classroom type setting you have all kinds of great advantages that you don't have in a club or other cold approach.

    Whether you recognize it or not, approaching in class in much like approaching someone in your social circle. There is a sense of already "knowing" each other because you are both students in the same class. You share much of the same reality.

    What you can do is sit next to her, if the opportunity affords itself, but be careful of making it look too deliberate (you might have already blown it with this girl). You can catch up to in the hall and ask her about anything related to the lecture, try to get her and a group to form a study group or study of a test, or invite her to grab coffee with you and go over the lecture. If you are sitting next to her in class, before class, you can just "assume" familiarity and ask her about her day, her hobbies or whatever else. If you come on like a total stranger, you will have to do that much more work to grab her. The classroom setting lets you "assume" familiarity which gives you a great boost and gets you over the worst part of the process.

    If you want to give some specifics, I can give you some specific pointers as well.

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    Default Re: some guidance needed

    haha, yea dude, I'd appreciate that alot, I know I wanna try game on another girl tomorow, and it'd be great if you could help me out

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    Default Re: some guidance needed

    Tell me about the class and about the girl.

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    Default Re: some guidance needed

    okay, the girls in a pe class w me, I met her earlier this year before I found out about this PU stuff, I got her number already and alota the time I talk to her I get small IOIs (brushing hair outta face, eye contact) but whenever I try to press any further, like with Kino I get shutdown. idk if I already farked up by knowing her before or what. I need help with getting to a hook point with her and building some sort of sexual tension, i'm not trying to fark her(yet) but I want to get it in her head as a possibility, what can/should I do?

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    Default Re: some guidance needed

    lol well first off your thinking beta...i want a chance so what do i do is what your thinking. in fact just try to think like ok if i like her then ill get her, if not its not worth my time. you have to have that natural thought that she has to overcome your standards. and if you have her number then try to work your text game. also try to just talk to her and get a date. then show her what its like to be a part of your life. we can help you with the routine and how to snag her but first you have to change the way you think...lol got it??
    I live in my reality and you’re a guest

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    Arrow Re: some guidance needed

    wow, that actually helps alot. so let's say from now on I do keep working on that alpha-attitude, what do I do after that? the attitudes a big part but I don't think it's all I have to right?

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    Default Re: some guidance needed

    So you have her number. Now's a great time to start text game. Texting is awesome, because it requires almost no emotional investment, but at the same time allows her to become more comfortable with you and also to flirt in a relaxed way. Especially if she is interested (ioi's) but she is still too uncomfortable with actually going out with you. How to text has been covered numerous times on this forum, so a quick search will turn up some great stuff.

    Make sure that you don't fall into the trap of predicating all your actions on her responses. In my first post I explained why your club routines were likely to fail on this girl. You need to be in tune with her body language, but at the same time, don't let her approval dictate how you act or feel. If you do, you will come off as weak and unattractive. I suggest that you just be friendly in class. Get to know her and her hobbies. Ask her about her day, or classes. Show her that your just a cool guy. Once she warms up to you, throw in an occasional, slightly sexual joke, or tease her about something. Mostly you will want to start building the sexual vibe and Tension initially through texting, and in person once you get her out of the class room setting. You are just going to make her uncomfortable if you actively hit on her in a class where she is surrounded by her peers and where she is trying to learn.

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    Default Re: some guidance needed

    okay, thanks alot dude. thisll totally help me out alot

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    Default Re: some guidance needed

    it sounds like you've tried a few times with her so i'm going to assume that shes smart enough to know your interested in her. try switching your focus from her to the people around her, or to another attractive girl in the class, and maybe she'll get a little jealous? dunno....if you don't notice a change in ioi's then switch focus back to her. but be cool with it! your trying cold-approach game in a lukewarm environment


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