DVH doesnt have to be a bit like the cube. DVH can be a story that shows S&R value. It can also qualify yourself as some one who is adventerous, or open minded. The best DVH are personal experiences. Most of mine come from things i have getten into in my life time and hit on my S&R value which pushes her attraction switch.
Well how about giving them examples of some of the stuff you put in your stories. Like what r some of ur high values.lol
okay, I got some stories, but idk how I'd be able to tell them without sounding like I'm up my own ass, just back in Jan. I crashed my dirtbike into a barbwire fence and broke my nose, (true story) but like I said I don't really know how to incorperate it into a convo without sounding like I'm either trying to Impress or one-up her
There all kinds of value that you can work to display. It depends on your goals as to what you want to show. I am looking for high quality women who is willing to experience life and hopefully one day settle down, so I am going to display things like stability, protector, adventurous, provider and most important simply being alpha! If a woman doesnít want those things in me, then I donít want herÖ. Im picky what can I say.
Things like cold reading and the gimics that Style used in The Game work great, so does the Magic, but not everyone has those tools. So we have to develop our own. I always say on here if you havnt experienced life go out and do it. Do the crazy things, take a trip on a whim, jump out of a plane, go get lost in the woods for a week, whatever just go do it. This will give you experiences that will allow you to convey high value to your target.
As for a simple example: I use a story about when I went on a skydive with a bunch of my friends on a beach here on the gulf coast. The trick to it was we were all nude. And when they donít believe me, I break out the puctures! Lmao!!
This shows im willing to do stupid crazy stuff, and it also gives me the chance to talk about one of my passions. Doing it in a fun passonate way and it cant help but show value.
BTW your story would be great. Tell it in a way where you are making fun of yourself and you will get a laugh out of them.
lol yeah you could even incorperate saying after i did whatever the shittiest thing happened i crashed my bike and broke my nose and get her to touch it or something and start kinoing...haha you can put that in as long as it seemed like a tragic accident and that your not trying to one up her but relate with her
Few years back I got in a crazy soccer accident and almost died twice.
It makes a good dhv for a few reasons.
1. When women hear it they can relate, hell, I'll usually bring it up if talk of scars/injuries comes up.
2. Relating to #1 it's easy to bring up.
3. Women are just straight up impressed by it.
4. It makes you alpha as hell when the girls in the group are pulling up your shirt to see a scar.
5. It makes you even more alpha because there isn't a DHV that I have seen that can top it, so unless I fuck myself over I'm the AM now.
Earlier this year when I was just learning PU I used this in a dedicated routine, at one point I was telling what happened to some girls sitting down, the hole thing landed to well that when I finished they were standing up.