Re: Game- Deficient : BIG PROBLEM
lol well thats usually the best part. when you have decided you needed help. i have friends that wont except my help. and i get girls while they try at one like an AFC and fuck up. You probably have the problem lots of guys have, you have a good conversation and she wants a guy like you but you built no rapport, no sexual tension, and she has no sexual interest in you. So maybe a good start is having an outline of what some of the more experienced pua do.
Personally, i like making them laugh cause it opens them up, lowers their Bitch Shield and every girl loves a guy to make them laugh.
So usually i will open with something that either is A) just funny and makes them laugh or B) i can work with it sarcastically to make them laugh. So first off you need to know there are three kinds of openers direct, indirect and opinionated. those can be broken down even further into situational and blah blah blah. but that the basic three and they explain themselves. you just need to work on practicing them. Personally i do opinionated more cause it gets them talking and getting comfortable while i dont have to worry about me showing to much interest. just them talking i can naturally mesh myself into the convo and them start my pua thing.
After the opener you need to know how to transition. There lots of things you can do but the best thing is just talk to her. Transition into whatever you want to talk. I could tell you stuff but i have found that guys usually go blank when its time to transition. so just talk to her and naturally push the convo more and more. Lets say she says " yeah i just had a day off from work and decided to come shopping but got hungry and stopped her. Perfect place to get to know her and neg her. "what do you do" she will usually answer with her everyday stuff and you neg her. " ok i cant talk to/ date (whichever your more comfortable with) who is all work and no fun. i meant what do you do for fun" then that naturally sets you up to qualify her, build rapport by relating with her, dhv stories, building some sexual tension, and lots of other stuff. Its hard for me to tell you cause i do whatever i feel is good at the moment. so if she says she likes rock climbing i have a story about how me and a couple friends went rock climbing and ended up after a couple of climbs we would do cliff diving and ended up somehow having alcohol involved and did it naked which is a very bad decision by the way.
Basically what im saying is just talk to her but mold in pua stuff with it to get her attracted.
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