I'm not talking about styles 5 question thing. I have and do use that bout not in this situation. What I'm talking about I think I got it from one if bills blogs about a date structure. Forgive me bill I can't remeber if it was yours it Nick sparks.... Either way it's basically where you play a game with them where y'all ask each other questions back and forth and you have to tell the truth. But they can't ask the same question twice so if you aski it they can't ask you the same. So you start off playful to get them comfortable then you can switch to sexual. This works like a charm cause it gets sex in their head. I will almost always ask them if they like rough sex, Whatever they say I neg
. Creates back and forth. Forces them to invest and let's control the frame. Usually some good conversation thread will come off of it.