Good evening fellow PUA,
Before me stands a huge rock and I require aid to move it. So basically there is this girl I like, and she would of been mine, but there is one problem, yea she has boyfriend. Please don't get me started on m0rality and ethics, if she's not marrying the guy, she's game. The better man comes out victorious.
A little backstory: I have no trouble at all picking up girls, even those that have boyfriends. Girls come and go. However at this tender age of 22, I'm getting tired of this same PUA routine. I feel empty inside, I need love - I need a girlfriend.
I met this girl in college, and I'm sure you've heard this before, but yes she is what I describe as my ideal girl. At first I did not notice her, but after some time of flirtatious eye contact, she had my attention. I went up to her and did the usual routine. Eventually I found out that she has a boyfriend and I don't know why but I felt really upset about it.
I set up a private channel of communication with her (MSN) and got to know her better, so much so that today we're pretty good friends today. Whatever I tried looked like it didn't have any effect whatsoever. At first she avoided mentioning her boyfriend in front of me but now, because of other students that hang out with us, he's a common conversation subject, which I ignore.
I decided to go with the good ol' hard-to-get-routine, it worked at first; she felt my absence, but now it takes a miracle for her to come talk to me on Messenger, and if she does, she doesn't respond immediately. We have shared a number of romantic moments and we each gave the other pet names.
Her boyfriend of about three years is basically an alpha male who literally looks like the troll face meme, he's flippin rich and goes over to her house almost all the time. Sometimes she turns down my flirts online and I always assumed that her boyfriend was next to her. On other occasions she's flirtatious and different, so I guess she was alone.
There are other losers running around her feet waiting for that moment that she's single again but they aren't really a problem. One of them was stupid enough to get himself stuck in the dreaded friend zone, even though she spends a lot of time with him.
I can't break this nut open. She complains that she misses him, I have made sure that there is this element of lust between us thus keeping myself well away from the friend zone....bah!
Please do advice. If anyone could provide me with a solid-proof plan that would be amazing. People complaining that this is wrong kindly leave this thread. I'll add more details when I remember them, I'm too tired to think.