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    Default Cute girl at work.

    So I'm new here but I'm glad I found this forum, I look forward to getting to know you all and sharing experiences in the future.

    Anyhow there's this girl I work with, she's just about the prettiest girl I've ever seen. When she smiles at me I completely melt inside. The problem is she works on a different floor to me so never get a chance to talk to her. Every time I see her (once or twice a week) she's walking past, usually in a hurry.

    We exchange niceties, smiling, say hi, ask how’s it going, ect... but it's just platonic stuff.

    What would be the best way to get her to stop and talk?

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    Default Re: Cute girl at work.

    Quote Originally Posted by RyanJames1988 View Post
    So I'm new here but I'm glad I found this forum, I look forward to getting to know you all and sharing experiences in the future.

    Anyhow there's this girl I work with, she's just about the prettiest girl I've ever seen. When she smiles at me I completely melt inside. The problem is she works on a different floor to me so never get a chance to talk to her. Every time I see her (once or twice a week) she's walking past, usually in a hurry.

    We exchange niceties, smiling, say hi, ask how’s it going, ect... but it's just platonic stuff.

    What would be the best way to get her to stop and talk?

    well treat her like you would a set of strangers. Say you guys are about to walk past each other, try either blocking her, walking next to her then naturally start slowing down to see if she slows down as well. and just open her, you can do direct, indirect, opinionated or situational. I would go with which ever you can make the funniest so she can start laughing to lower her Bitch Shield. But after the opener naturally transistion into getting to talk to her. Since your both working you have a natural time constraint, and then try to # close her and get her to come out. Best thing to probably do is invite her to something with some of the coworkers. like one night you guys all go out and get some drinks. and then finally just throw your game at her when you guys are out
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    Default Re: Cute girl at work.

    Quote Originally Posted by RyanJames1988 View Post
    So I'm new here but I'm glad I found this forum, I look forward to getting to know you all and sharing experiences in the future.

    Anyhow there's this girl I work with, she's just about the prettiest girl I've ever seen. When she smiles at me I completely melt inside. The problem is she works on a different floor to me so never get a chance to talk to her. Every time I see her (once or twice a week) she's walking past, usually in a hurry.

    We exchange niceties, smiling, say hi, ask how’s it going, ect... but it's just platonic stuff.

    What would be the best way to get her to stop and talk?
    i had this situation all the time i was in a particular job. i never escalated and all the people in the building seemed to be watching. all the blokes talked about her all the time and she was smiling at me and saying hi and i had to be sure my male colleagues weren't around to do something chumpish.

    i should have acted quickly perhaps.... or at least established a platform?

    she went off me after a few years of hellos and smiles etc... and bad forced semi attempts

    when i left i found her on facebook and wrote to her saying sorry i never acted on the thing and it was nice that she was nice and i wasn't having the best time in that place and i never made any real friends there and it may have been nice if we had been friends

    she wrote back, quite a lengthy letter saying that she understands and agrees that the workplace was a lonely one, asked me what i am doing and wished me luck. i dint reply to her reply and put in a friends request she hasnt taken up... i am more expecting to run into her out and i am more comfortable with what may happen there then... not hanging my hat on it but the door is ajar

    i was at work to do a job and i dont think that romance would have helped my situation anyway

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    Default Re: Cute girl at work.

    coyote thats a sad story man...sniff sniff...but for real that sucks. when she actually replied with a lengthy message that means that she wanted to talk, and then you guys had a rapport topic about the job. i think if you were to continue on her, that might be your girl right there.
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