Okay, so I'm pretty much just going for this one girl (I know, one-itis, but whatever). I dont really know what to make of her though. We've been talking a lot recently and she texts me regularly even when I dont respond and asked me to hang out a bunch of times.
So two friends and I were hanging out so I invited her to come with. At first, it was awesome and she held on to the hug a little tighter/longer than normal. It was a very casual/laid-back sort of flirting between us, with the little quarrels, hand touching while messing around, and joke arguments and she laughed a lot at what I said. But at some point (I didn't do anything different or weird throughout the hangout), she just seemed to not respond as much to what I was saying. And when we all split up, I approached her for a hug and she went "okay, if you really want one", but it was in such a monotone voice that I couldnt tell if she was just messing around with me or not. Also, when I texted her later (I know, bad move on my part) and asked her when she was free to go to this place she kept wanting to go to together, she texted back "never" and prior to this, she was so willing and eager to go.
Am I just being paranoid and self-conscious because I'm really into this girl?
Is she just testing me and I should continue to be really laid back (which I have been the entire time I've been talking to her, even though I slipped up today) and not give in?
I want to know how I can secure this girl or at least bring up some confidence in me, cuz this is really bothering me.
I would really appreciate some advice because I'm really into this girl. ANY ADVICE will do, even if I didn't mention it in here (I know I forgot to include/ask some stuff).
And please no comments about having one-itis or anything like that because I'm not trying to become a full-fledged PUA; I just want to utilize these techniques to get the girl I want.
Thanks a lot, I really appreciate it.