This is the problem. 3 days ago, my friend and I did some day game. We went to the streets and used Indirect Game on a 2 set, under the pretense that we were looking for a local designer store and that I was an exchange student (I am based in China, but not Chinese) and he was showing me around. Anyhow, we ran this thread for quite some time and we got them to walk with us to near the locale they suggested. Then after around 10 minutes my wing asked for his target for her number, she didn't want to give it to him, and asked her friend to give hers instead. Her friend complied and gave him her number.
Then we made some mistakes, we called them twice on the same day. Once, for my friend asking them whether he could give the other girl's (which was my target) number to me and the second time on the same day he asked whether they'd like to hang out with us sometime soon. After a long wait, they replied that they weren't available.
Now, I haven't called them yet, and am going to call my target today. The thing is they might've smelt that we have some interest in them and that might have triggered their ASD. Now, I would like to ask them both out but on our first encounter I doubt there was enough comfort or attraction. Although we did make them giggle a bit...So I was wondering what YOU recommend on how to handle this situation. I know to have the abundance mentality and go for another one, but I want to plow through this set and see how it goes.
My thoughts are to call her and then tell her that myself and my wing shall be going out with some friends to so and so place, I'll give them the time and venue and give them the option of coming or not (thus giving them the impression that we don't need them and have not much interest in them, hopefully lowering their ASD), this invitation shall be veiled under the excuse that it was fun talking to them and thus they can hang out with us. What do you think?
P.S. The girl doesn't know I can speak her language, I spoke English to her. I have no plans to reveal that I know the language either. So while calling her today it might be a bit tricky to make her understand...
THANKS IN ADVANCE!!