Alright been talking, texting this girl for awhile. She works with me and I've really been trying to keep it AMOG around her and it's starting to work. I haven't really acted like I have much interest in her, but we talk and I make her laugh and just as soon as it seems she is really getting into me, I pretend like I've lost interest in her and find something else to do. So most of my friends are out of town and I told her it was her job to entertain me this week. She laughed and said that we should hang out.
Finally she texted me and wanted to hang out, but she said she was looking rough because she was driving back from some place and didn't have time to get ready, so she didn't want to go out somewhere. I told her that no one was really doing anything on a Wednesday night, so if I didn't find anything, the movies were the backup plan. She responded that she didn't want to go to the movies because she didn't have time to get ready.
So I called up some friends of mine who were just chillin round their pool and drinking and they said that we could come hang out. (There were going to be girls there, not just all guys) I texted her, told her what we were doing, and she started to ask a lot of questions. Where does he live?, Who all was there? that sort of thing. Then she says it was going to be weird for her because she doesn't really know these people (Even though she went to school with them). After that another text saying she was going to feel weird around them and now she was just thinking about staying at home. I made up some crap that they were about to go see a movie and we would just chill next week.
I didn't chase her at all. Just left it at that, like it would be better if she stayed at home.
Question is: How bad did I screw up and what did she really want to do? I really don't know how to interpret this. It seemed like I damned if I did, damned if I didn't.