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    Default Newbie game... transitioning

    Ok, so heres my situation, I am somewhat new to daygame and going direct. I enjoy going up to a girl and tell her that I think shes cute. I usually say something like this "hey, i just saw you and i though you were really cute, i just had to come say hi... my name is Chad." The girls usually smile, say thanks and then tell me there name. The problem is now how do I transition to something else. I want to use something funny, but I cant think of anything funny to do after I opinion... so i usually just end up using another opener (like an opinion one), however i feel like this just kills the whole fun spontaneous vibe. Any advice or ideas would be awsome. Also, another problem that i seem to be having is that after i open, the girls body doesnt "open up" in the way I would like it to, is there a way to make this happen, or should it just naturally happen if she begins to laugh.

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    Default Re: Newbie game... transitioning

    Try adding something to you opener. Like when you ay you’re really cute so I had to come talk to you and see if there was more to you than just a cute smile.

    When I do this I don’t introduce myself I just let it hang for a second. Usually they will start to talk and try to qualify and then you’re in. Once she is talking run solid game and you’re good to go.

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    Default Re: Newbie game... transitioning

    thats good stuff, thanks, any further ideas for connection stuff would be nice as well

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    Default Re: Newbie game... transitioning

    Quote Originally Posted by tcomea2 View Post
    Try adding something to you opener. Like when you ay youíre really cute so I had to come talk to you and see if there was more to you than just a cute smile.

    When I do this I donít introduce myself I just let it hang for a second. Usually they will start to talk and try to qualify and then youíre in. Once she is talking run solid game and youíre good to go.
    yeah thats good and throw in something from when you were just approaching (even if you make it up) so that she thinks - yeah just then i was sitting here bored- and then she thinks but now this guy (YOU) has approached and hey! you are bringing her something to make her day interesting.

    they are often having uninteresting days until you arrive. especially Hired Guns.

    can material or conversation topics. 3 is plenty

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    Default Re: Newbie game... transitioning

    Quote Originally Posted by NUGUY View Post
    thats good stuff, thanks, any further ideas for connection stuff would be nice as well
    I am guessing you are looking for that body language connection you were talking about in the first post. If so, when you reach the hook point in a set her body language should open up to you. That is how I gage where I am at in set. If she gives you her hips you have her interested and youíre in.

    If your talking about the transition still, well the hardest thing about running solid game isnít what to say first, its what to say next. And for that I go back to my first post. Reason I throw the qualifying statement in is so she will have to qualify herself to me. People dont like the feeling of being inferior so they will try to do what they can to raise their value. This is also why negging works. Let her talk there for a second, and if she doesnít open up stack to another opener cause you donít have her hooked.

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    Default Re: Newbie game... transitioning

    yeah, like the problem i thought i was having was that like for instance, if i approached someone whose just sitting on a bench or something, which i have... i thought it would almost immediately open up after i gave her the complement in the opener. Looking back, i realize i never actually reached a good hook point, so thats a big light bulb going off so to speak.

    now this might sound stupid ( i havnt tried ur opener quite yet), but have u ever gotten the reaction like "i dont know" from her, like after u say that u wanted to find out if she had more than just a great smile"? and if so, do u just go ahead and neg her off of that?

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    Default Re: Newbie game... transitioning

    i have before and i neg saying someething like well i guess nothing then, and body rock out of the set giving the false Take Away. If you do that and she is even the slightest bit attracted to you she will pull you back in.

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    Default Re: Newbie game... transitioning

    cool, thanks

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    Default Re: Newbie game... transitioning

    but when you approach just start talking... say anything as long as you are saying something and talking. its quantity not quality at first then start refining it.

    as blokes we have to perform. women dont want a man who makes them work. we must perform so what seperates any of us from the chumps who try and make a move is that we are interesting and engage their attention. if i am working a chick and never seen her before i am upbeat, performing acting like the alpha male. i can fish for info on another occasion.

    lots of field trips for you at this stage mate. dont get hooked on one babe you see. just approach 100 in a week and keep pumping it. sarj em dude. get talking, get their attention. crash and burn. get up again and go the next one.... it keeps getting better

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    Default Re: Newbie game... transitioning

    yeah, i definatly agree with you, in saying u just have to learn from experience.. while i hate that fact, it always helps to here it reiterated. And just recently i went out to the mall with a friend of mine, hes basically my wingman now, but there was this really cute girl that i went and talked to and eventually i said a joke which i thought would be really funny, but she didnt find it funny (i got blown out hard), and so now i know to not use it again, that being said, now it does make one of the funniest stories in my arsenal.


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