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    madric44 Guest

    Default Newbie = bad wig approach and repor

    Hey I'm new with the pua community just started reading the game but I'm geeked to learn. My problem now is approaching because nerves and when I do approach I have a rough time getting through convo... I'm picking up a lot from the book and this website but any advice would be huge. I am an interesting guy with a lot of good stories but am terrible at delivering them in an interesting/ funny way. Should I be writing down some stuff and practicing telling it in a good way?

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    Default Re: Newbie = bad wig approach and repor

    Sure if you have good experiences that show value write them down and get them good. Story telling is a great way to build value, and its real unlike a lot of gimmicks out there.

    As for your nerves. This is what we call aa, Approach Anxiety. Only way to get over it is to get it in your head that its better to try and fail then to never try at all. And then go out there and do it. Start small, go out tomorrow to the mall or something and walk around for a few hours and just try to make small talk about anything, not pick up related. Do this and you will see that most people are open to conversation. Do this and work on eye contact and smiling. Have fun with it, don’t worry about if its some hot girl, just go do it.

    BTW later you will find that hot girls are some of the easiest to open. All you have to do is be different from the normal onslaught of AFC guys telling her she is so hot… ok I ramble. Start small, start now, and get in the game.

    Let us know where we can help, but we need feedback to be able to help you best.

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    Default Re: Newbie = bad wig approach and repor

    Do what i am planing to do tonight. Go out with the expressed objective of getting rejected. I am literally planning on walking into sets and in a particular manner saying hey reject me. I will tell them its for a social dynamic study I am doin. so Ill ask to be rejected and tell them to be creative. lol

    I already did this to some chick that friend requested me on facebook, her response was well Id say lets get a drink, dance chat! I was like this is how u reject me? lol Start small, but if u try for rejection you might be surprised!

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    Pure bombing openers. They work great and help get you over aa. Sometimes youll even pull the set

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    Never thought aboutgoing out trying to get shut down. So I tried it out Wednesday it was working great, I was gettin over my nerves but my night came to a quick end when I got in an accident.

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    Default Re: Newbie = bad wig approach and repor

    Quote Originally Posted by madric44 View Post
    Never thought aboutgoing out trying to get shut down. So I tried it out Wednesday it was working great, I was gettin over my nerves but my night came to a quick end when I got in an accident.

    ? Explain ?

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    Crashes a crotch rocket into a cement block .... Can't being in a cast/splint play to my benefit tho


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