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    amino2 Guest

    Default Tonight is my first night sarging!

    Hey guys, so I have decided to make my step into this game tonight. Some friends and I are going to head out to some bars and I figure this to be perfect. I think I even have a pawn i just gamed the rejection routine on to come out with us.

    heres my plan: Since it my first night I wanna attempt to crash and burn. My goal is to ask women to reject me and see where that goes. Ill tell them I am doin a social psych exp and they look like experts.

    I also wanna try the jealous gf routine later in the night as it progresses. I am going to give my friend some money and have to earn t back by opening sets.

    any suggestions friends?

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    Default Re: Tonight is my first night sarging!

    well guys I completely failed. I didnt talk so a single chick that i didnt know. I am so intimidated at the bars I am simply paralyzed! please help!

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    Default Re: Tonight is my first night sarging!

    What us the nature of you aa? Rejection? Social Status? What? Take some time think back to what you were thinking when you were having the debate with yourself about the approach. Think about that and then come back with that and we can see where we can help.

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    Default Re: Tonight is my first night sarging!

    It might be worth trying to go to a bar solo. I did this my first night out and the pressure from looking/feeling like a total loner weirdo was strong enough that approaching girls almost seems easier than standing around totally alone. I think if I had friends around I would have done the usual thing and stayed in a comfortable group being my old chicken shit self.

    I'm still a recovering AFC so take this advice with a grain of salt, but I was able to make a whole life of severe aa melt away by the end of the night. It won't be easy but if you're like me you'll feel great about yourself afterward no matter how lame your outer game was, which will help your inner game so you can work on improving.

    Don't give up man, if I can get past the first step anyone can. Seriously.

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    Default Re: Tonight is my first night sarging!

    If you are really nervous this one is really funny!!

    DATING FOR DUMMIES (Herbal) Go find the Dating for Dummies book. It's bright yellow and black.
    I forget the exact page (78 maybe?), but find the page that has "NEVER USE THESE LINES" on it, and
    keep the book open to that page.
    Walk up to a girl BLATANTLY and hold the book up in front of your face so she can easily read the
    title. She might start laughing, depending on how you do it.
    Then slowly lower the book and read the lines. "So... come here often" in a super player voice. She will
    crack up and answer you. Break your "smooth" look on your face and quickly bring the book back up
    and read the next line "What's your sign?". She will laugh again and probably answer.
    Then I usually say "Wow... this works great. Your turn". It puts her on the spot. You can flip to random
    pages and do tons of role-play... the breaking up stuff is great.

    After that if you wanna stay in the set go on to another routine or just say, nice meeting you guys have to go do X(whatever, rejoin your friends and so on)

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    Default Re: Tonight is my first night sarging!

    Zeigler that i about the funniest shit I have ever heard! i love it and will use it and some point.

    Here is basically what happened last night. I met my bud at the bar last night, we got there early to eat and were sitting there shooting the sh*t. We were having fun in our own little world, we looked fun! I was telling him my plans, going over my routine, my transitions and he said it sounds great. When the place got busy we met with some other friends and all of a sudden I simply stopped believing in my material. When I saw a set, any set, I was just paralyzed mentally. Even fat ugly chicks. Half way through the night I was so upset with myself that I just left because my mood couldn't be saved and i couldn't even enjoy my friends. That is what happened to me.

    I think am gonna try to step back and try casual encounters where I just say hi to people any where I am.

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    Default Re: Tonight is my first night sarging!

    Start by going to private parties.. It is so easy to open there So how do you know X, and start out with smalltalk.. If it is dying you pull out a routine, jealous gf is good here but make it your own story.. Then you don't forget it as easily and it does not appear as canned material.. Take stories from your own life and make it into a routine.. F.X. "BTW I have a question. So a friend of mine have this problem/ we had a discussion about X and we simply couldn't agree and so on.. What do you think of that / what is your oppinion about that??" FYI it doesn't matter what you say, but how your body language, eye contact is and how you say it..

    And remember that it's just a game :S haha, no seriuosly it is a game you can win.. This place is a cheat sheet

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    Default Re: Tonight is my first night sarging!

    Ok so today has been much better so far. I woke up determined to make my first step into this game and I did just that. I started at target goin up to middle aged ladies, there usually friendly and im not interested so less anxiety. I did 2 openers: 1 I had a couple cds in my hand and told them I needed help choosing between the two. 2 I approached the ladies and said I needed help with ideas for a first date that i had tonight, this was fun cuz the ladies usaully opened up about themselves and the convo seemed to last!

    I then moved to the mall and started to target a diff demographic, younger girls around my age but not really ones I was interested in. I used the reject me routine and it turned out very fun for me and the sets. I did that twice and see a need to refine my script but it was a success for day 1.

    I finally feel that this can be and is game. It felt so cool to just start talking to people and get response. I loved the rush I got. I am on cloud nine today guys. Todays mission was a success, approach random strangers lol

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    Thumbs up Re: Tonight is my first night sarging!

    Quote Originally Posted by amino2 View Post
    Ok so today has been much better so far. I woke up determined to make my first step into this game and I did just that. I started at target goin up to middle aged ladies, there usually friendly and im not interested so less anxiety. I did 2 openers: 1 I had a couple cds in my hand and told them I needed help choosing between the two. 2 I approached the ladies and said I needed help with ideas for a first date that i had tonight, this was fun cuz the ladies usaully opened up about themselves and the convo seemed to last!

    I then moved to the mall and started to target a diff demographic, younger girls around my age but not really ones I was interested in. I used the reject me routine and it turned out very fun for me and the sets. I did that twice and see a need to refine my script but it was a success for day 1.

    I finally feel that this can be and is game. It felt so cool to just start talking to people and get response. I loved the rush I got. I am on cloud nine today guys. Todays mission was a success, approach random strangers lol
    AWESOME dude!! You are getting there fast.. Just remember to have fun :P

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    As people we get rejected all day long every day, ask someone if they want a mint and they say no, that’s rejection. The reason that doesn’t bother us is because we interpret it as rejection of an object. However if you ask a girl to go have a drink and she say no we take it as rejection of us. The secret is all in how you interpret it. So if I get rejected on a pu im not going to hang my head, im going to take a step back build more comfort, spike arousal and try the close again. My thought is that she is not rejecting me, she just doesn’t know me well enough yet. So wash rinse repeat. You have to fail to succeed. It’s a learning process. It takes rejection and success in order to get good at this. So learn now and accept the fact that you’re going to have to get rejected sometimes. Remove failure from your vocabulary and accept that it’s just a game its not reality it’s a game. If you get shot down hit the reset button and go back for more.

    You need to get rid of you limiting beliefs. That internal monologue that tell you that you cant, or that it wont work. This is going to sound nuts but change the sound of the voice in your head to something crazy, Donald duck or something stupid. That way when you hear that voice you cant help but smile and laugh at it. Don’t accept it, reject it. Boost your free mind that tell you that you can. Crank the volume on that on. Change the media you put in your life, stuff that’s up beat will pump you up, emo is going to drag you down.

    Everything you need to succeed is inside of you. All you have to do is harness it and bring it out. Great job getting back on the horse today after last night, very proud of you for that, now transition that to night game and go open 10 sets tonight. Don’t worry about closing, just worry about getting to a hook point and have fun!


    Hopes this helps


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