I am new to the board and found lots of great information from all you guys!! This is my first post so here we go...
Been interested in some hot ass blonde chick at the gym for a few months now. She smiles and looks over at me all the time. We have said hello, and have exchanged names, but thats as far as its really gotten. I really haven't approached her with any openers, just because I go there to workout, and dont want to be this creepy dude hitting on chicks at the gym. I go everyday, so a lot of people already know me, and come up and talk with me, which is a good social proof I suppose. So Today, she showed up with this ugly looking dude that doesnt even know how to dress which was the boyfriend, because they kissed on the way out! UGH!!
She never shows up with him, but he has come with her about 3 or 4 times now.
Is this a lost cause? Or there are ways of overcoming the "boyfriend" in this position.