Hi guys Ė New to the forum here. Looking for some advice from some fellow aspiring PUAís and wondering if anyoneís experienced a similar problem: Iíve hit a new roadblock of sorts. The last three dates Iíve had (all HB 8.5s/9s), went well, or so I thought... First, some background: All of these girls I met out sarging, number-closed, put forth good phone game in between meetings, and met up within 10 days. Dates all went well - Good conversation, consistent laughs, physical escalation leading to making out in various places (in the venue, second venue from a bounce, back of a cab), and leading discussion of going out again soon, etc.
But hereís the rub: Not one, not a single one of these girls has ever responded to me again. Complete silence. Iíve tried one voicemail and one text with each within a week after the date, but have left it at that. Nothing awkward or strange happened at the end of the date, or post-make out, in fact I havenít deviated from my standard gameplan in any respect so Iím wondering what it could be. Iím not among the worldís best by any stretch (canít close 9s and 10s with regularity but I have my moments), but I have pretty solid game. Iíve replayed the various nights in my head, trying to find a mistake (most likely in my sequencing, perhaps?) that I may have made, since there obviously is one, but Iím at a loss.
Such post-date silence seems strange because I was able to successfully escalate with all three girls. Obviously, given a complete lack of post-date responses, the dates didnít go as well as I thought. While I was not able to get them home to f-close, I didnít attempt to do so. Perhaps that was a mistake but at first, I didnít view it as an insurmountable one. Reason why is that I am a believer in the seven-hour rule, and since the dates all seemed to be going well with open discussion of a second date already taken as obvious, and since Iíd only put in roughly three hours with each girl, I didnít think Iíd put enough time in with any of them. True, I could have at least attempted to get them back to my place, but all dates were on weeknights where I, or both of us, had to be up by 5-6 am. Not exactly the right situation to f-close a 9. I figured Iíd put in some time during the week, and f-close at the weekend once Iíd put more time in (close to 7 hrs.).
Regardless, had this happened once with a HB, Iíd just dismiss it as a one-off and move on to the next. But this has happened with three girls consecutively so I feel itís time to acknowledge somethingís gone wrong with my golf swing, so to speak, and I donít know where to fix it. Iíve always thought the discussion on this board was of a very high level, so I figured Iíd seek the advice of some fellow aspiring PUAís. Iíd welcome any thoughts/feedback. Look forward to talking with you all.