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  1. #1
    Malachai Guest

    Default Striking out with Closes

    Hey guys, I need some help here. In the past month I've been working on my game and it's going great...up to a point.

    Here's the deal. I can open any group of girls that's out there. Some are easy and natural while others I'm sweating, but I'm opening, getting them to pick up the conversation and moving forward to a certain amount of comfort including things like lots of kino, hot IOI's and plenty of sexual tension.

    That's all going pretty great. What's killing me is closing. Friday night I noticed that I went from being a total AMOG type when it was fun and flirty but when I started to feel some internal pressure to escalate the relationsip I wilted into an AFC. It was a great night up to that point and I pulled two young HB10's and a 3 set with 2 HB8's and one married HB 7 (but she was cool as hell). The whole night I was free to bounce between the two groups, or get some hot kino from one chick as she just "happened" to walk by as I was getting serious attention from another chick. It was like taking candy from a baby and I was amazed that not only did they not get pissed at me for obviously paying attention to other ladies but also really lit up when I strolled back over to them. That sounds like a recipe for a hot time...But...when the clubs close, and it's time to make a move, I'm freezing and or getting akward.

    Any tips on how to improve on this point of game?

    Thanks,
    Malachai

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    Default Re: Striking out with Closes

    If your getting solid ioi's work for a k close well before you have to leave. Quickest I have had was about 12 minutes. No reason you can not get it in the course of an hour or so.

    Is the Tension staying strong through the night?

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    Default Re: Striking out with Closes

    Ya the Tension's staying strong and it's not escaping from something they're doing. I'm inadvertently throwing a wet blanket on the fire by getting nervous.

    I think that I'm getting nervous because of overthinking. Some things that go through my mind are stuff like, "This girls great, even though I want to ratchet things up a few notches, don't because then you may blow a chance to see her again." or "If I make a move and strike out, then this girl is blown for me." or "This isn't the perfect time, you're going to f it up" etc... I'm also afraid of making a move and getting rejected in front of my friends, other people at the club and the wait staff who I'll probably see again.

    I quit drinking a while back and now that I'm sarging without the liquid courage it's a bit harder to make a move in a relaxed sort of way. Not drinking's definitely sharpened up my initial game, framing, opening sets and all that but I used to be fearless when it came time to close the deal. Now I'm scared to death of coming off as too predatory or something. Maybe that's a reaction to all those sexual harrassment classes we had to sit through in college, the military and the office.

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    Default Re: Striking out with Closes

    So if I understand this correctly: you are opening, building comfort and rapport, getting Kino, escalating kino yet worried about looking predatory. It would appear that closing the deal would just be the natural progression of your work. Its not predatory, its just the next step! Hell they are probably waiting for you to do it and your lack there of shows a lack of confidence in your self to them. Step up, be confident and give them what they want--- some loving!!! hahaha

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    Default Re: Striking out with Closes

    You need to address you out look here. I wrote a post a while back about the cognitive reality loop. Go check it out. You are seeing yourself as lower value in some way where you might not be able to satisfy her, or something idk. You have to change this, change it to think that you are the best option for her, that for her to be with you is a pleasure and gift for her to enjoy. And im not just talking about sex. Get out of your head and enjoy the experience

    . A kclose should not be something done at the end of the night but during the escalation. If you need help with the escalating thing check out either Bills Product The Vibe, or Nick Sparks Ignite your Night. Two great programs that will help here a lot. Next time your in set and things are rolling along nicely and there is real sexual Tension look and disqualify yourself by saying something like: to bad we just met cause I really want to kiss you, or if there were not all these people around I would kiss you, or to bad I ate garlic for dinner cause I really want to kiss you. Do it with a smile and if she returns the smile go for it. Its an invitation.

    There are tons of kclose bit and routines out there you can use. I know of at least 3 that are mentioned in The Game. So google kclose and see what you get.

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    Default Re: Striking out with Closes

    Speaking of The Vibe Bill just made this preview avaliable check it out.

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