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    Default Why is my friend avoiding me?

    Hey guys, I recently met up with this guy who was in my class last year. He invited me to come shoot some hoops with him and his friend, he was happy to see me and invited me to go to a club with him and his other friend the next night. So I did, but after the club, things didnt go so well. I complained how I did not get any makeouts etc. And my friend assured me that it was ok, and that he would invite me to the next club and I would do much better. Well, the next few days he kept ignoring my hang out requests, (I only asked him to hang out once lol) and then he went to the club the next week and didnt tell me. It really pissed me off, because I dont consider this guy very high value at all, and I dont know what I did, I thought we left on a good note. This guy only has one other friend, so if anything he should be seeking me out. Could I text him and ask him about it? Or would that come off as needy? I have texted him a few times lately, and he sounds like he is annoyed by me, his replies are short and he makes excuses. I didn't do anything that I noticed, and we only hung out for like a day or two, and he is already judging me making assumptions.




    What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Why is my friend avoiding me?

    lol this is a dude man. you dont have to act like this with a guy. just ask him about it but dont get so pissed off and hold a grudge. and if you didnt get too many makeouts with girls then its your fault for weak game. just text him and talk for a second. we are guys and dont mind being forward or anything. just dont be a dick about it and dont be to big to apologize. but then you have to stay alpha so your like the leader of the group.
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    Default Re: Why is my friend avoiding me?

    Omg you got to be kidding me! Just call the dude and talk to him. Sometimes people just don't vibe. Call him and talk to him. This is very beta and seeking approval of others. Try not to do that be yourself and enjoy the people you are around.

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    Default Re: Why is my friend avoiding me?

    exactly. tcomea i didnt want to just say it but thats totally a beta bitch move. just hit him up and talk
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    Default Re: Why is my friend avoiding me?

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    exactly. tcomea i didnt want to just say it but thats totally a beta bitch move. just hit him up and talk
    yeah and if he dont like it, just move on. sometimes we fall out and come back again. try not to have a fight though. fallings out are ok. leave it on hold. people get busy with their own shit.

    is it that you though he might be a possible wingman?? if he aint interested in helping his mates then his own game probably isnt that good anyway

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    very true coyote

    AFC Metro stuff going on here lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcomea2 View Post
    very true coyote

    AFC Metro stuff going on here lol
    word big man, word

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    Default Re: Why is my friend avoiding me?

    damn it kid how old are you? thats completely AFC. You dont Game you friends you just stay alpha and work your shit. i mean WTF?

    so guys my male friend flaked on me, do i spank him? lol XD

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    Quote Originally Posted by prjav View Post
    damn it kid how old are you? thats completely AFC. You dont Game you friends you just stay alpha and work your Sh1t. i mean WTF?

    so guys my male friend flaked on me, do i spank him? lol XD
    you got it prjav 1
    no beating round the bush or tickling the lab
    you just frisked him good

    no gaming your mates
    i been shot down by loose cannons on the wing and its never stopped me from cutting a wing off mid flight and gliding in solo

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