So i was laying in bed thinking to myself about some good openers for the book store. There is a barnes and nobles right across the street from my house, since I am there at least 2-3 hours out of my day. I was thinking of several different openers.
1. If a girl is sorting through the magazines like most do, I was thinking of walking up to her and saying:
Ghost: Excuse me, I only have a minute but I would really like to get your opinion on a discussion my friends and I were having, Do you think that men who are overly muscular like this man(pointing to the steroid abusing guy on the front of mens fitness or what not) are attractive? with a slight tone of sarcasm and laugh.
Ghost: I would then interrupt her a couple seconds in and say, "I have told my friends over and over again that while looks may be what women first see, usually having an outgoing personality can make up for almost any physical deformity, even if that deformity is having tooo much muscle!" "A perfect example is you(point at the womans body), physically decently attractive, although your style isnt really my type(good ned), you seem to have a good energy about you that makes me want to talk to you, and while living in scottsdale there are beautiful women running around everywhere, Then run the mystery technique of beauty isnt everything. Having three key things is important: having a good energy, outlook, and aura are key.
or if i dont feel like running the mystery routine I was thinking I could even run with kind of one I made up on my own. After asking her opinion when I interrupt her I would say "I have told my friends all the time that judging a book by its cover is never a good idea, for instance ill bet you would never guess that I pick up the mens fitness magazine like this because they have great recipes for healthy cooking, while I do enjoy staying in shape, I love cooking healthy good tasting food. Now what about you, Is there more to you(pointing slightly at hb) then meets the eye or is it all gossip and taylor lautner for you in those magazines?(small neg)
HB: now depending on the answer I can either neg again, or continue on to dhv.
The third and final is a spin off of the second instead of saying For instance Ill bet you would never guess that I pick up the mens fitness magazine like this because they have great recipes for healthy cooking, while i do enjoy staying in shape, I love cooking healthy good tasting food.
I would say "I have told my friends all the time that judging a book by its cover is never a good idea. Which is why I have to ask is it all about twilight characters and gossip magazines with you?(small neg) "or are there certain things in these magazines that you feel would set you a part from the rest of the group?"
Ghost: If she laughs(which she should, she will most likely probably open up or at least thats what i would think)
I feel like at this point you could even stack by saying "You knost most people dont realize but you can tell a lot about a persons intentions, motivations, and emotional level just by what their reading. I then take her and say "for instance lets say you look at a gossip magazine I could go out on a limb and say maybe you just want to be in the know, therefor you like to broaden your horizons and you are an intelligent person. By picking up the cosmo not only do you maybe enjoy sex, but you also like trying new things and keep your significant other happy, which would make you an adventurous person and caring person... see isn't this fun..I know more about u then u do!(small neg). I would think that at this point you could even go straight for a second meeting close by saying! How would you like to sit down for some coffee and tell me some things I might not know about you!? or you could continue with on with something else or you could even try and Number Close on the spot by saying "I really need to get back to my book, I am on a schedule, but how can continue this conversation?
I wanted to get a heads up from some of you guys before trying this in the field over the next week. I feel like it could really open a girl up to a possibility of not only number closing, even second meet closing right there on the spot for coffee at the bookstore or even dinner at my place that night. Especially if the girl is into healthy good food, and a man cooking for her.
please be critical and gimme some thoughts!