i am finding lately that when i get in a frame of mind and heart that is jovial and fun that i am getting rejected because the chicks just dont get it. i never have a problem with the 8's or 9's flirting this way and being funny (i gotta keep the cocky locked down too). 7's though often shoot me down with this.

when i am warm and genuine i come across well if my opener catches. what i am saying is the cocky and funny thing i may just being funny or the cocky is so far above them and The Vibe is off the "i was so drunk last night" level of day convo most of these younger ones have.....

i do find that the resonance of my voice is something that holds the girl in my court, but what vibe i put across can lose her so bad if she is not congruent....