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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    About this conversation issue; there is a little method that I have been using for a while and helped me a lot. I don't really know if it really works for everyone but, yeah...

    My method to avoid this was thinking vice-versa; trying not-to finding a topic while she was talking with me, like trying to stop my brain in order to get rid of question marks which were being occurred while she was speaking... I couldn't manage to do this. It was almost impossible. I couldn't stop my brain, and couldn't avoid the nouns getting inside my ears. And surprisingly I was generating plenty amount of questions.

    I am just a newbie here. But, if you just end up with nothing with all the good methods up there, I say give this a shot, better than nothing .

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    Great Post man!! I really like the portion on nouns, that helped me out quite a lot thanks!

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    great thread, however, i do disagree with u on one point which is being afraid to make a statement that the girls dont like. So what if u prefer cats and she dogs? i say bold stuff all the time only because i can pull off my strong frame with it and occasionally if she disagrees, ill just say "good for u, respect that, but we can agree to disagree" or if she was coming off sorta bitchy (rarely) then u micro-adjust with a harsher neg, replying "Excuse me for not agreeing with u, are u always this opinionated? u should get that checked..." then smirk...

    im not mean, i just like to casually put them on check =)

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    I like the idea of just striking up random conversations to learn to be comfortable with the flow of them

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    Wow, this helps a lot! Thank you.

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    Good article, thanks for the help.

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    nice post m8 .. i give it a shot if i find probs in conversing
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    Smile Re: The simple art of Conversation

    nice post...
    works great,, helped me alot...
    thanks...

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    I feel I've read this post somewhere before or very similar adaption. But its still very helpful for a lot, as it is pertinent info.

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    I think that a lot of guys will be able to connect with this - especially when we DON'T look for things to talk about. It's like being "out-of-state" but too tired to really care about what the conversation is really about that you naturally start talking about random things without even caring how she reacts to it. It's a great strategy that you don't need to be "in-state" for. A lot of people think that "omg I HAVE to get 'in-state' in order for my game to be successful." Definitely false! Being "in-state" has it's benefits, yes, but so does being "out-of-state." I hope this helps.
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