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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    First of all great post man. Keeping a convo is definately one of my weakest points in the game. This article is a big help.

    With that, there is one thing I am confused about. You mentioned that PUA should say bold yet risky things. Isnt it better to not say "Im not looking for a serious relationship" at all. I mean isnt it better to keep your motives underwraps so your more likely to pull the girl no matter what kind of relationship she is looking for. I can say other bold things, but I do not have to say that. It might turn her off.

    I can understand if the girl asks directly, but if not… Plead the fif?
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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    The thing about being PUA that you should recognize the target tensions , desires , yes and nos before he figure you out ,, because girls are different when it comes to the matter of hooking up or dating , so if you see that the girl in front of you like to keep light , no strings attached just like to have a good time then when the time comes you just go with " am not looking for a serious thing ryt now " but if the girl is a dreamer , romantic type then you drop the " i have looked so long but i didn't find someone that could make me take a serious steps in a relationship " , thats a diplomatic answer which make you on the safe side and gonna trig a bill in the girl head " Maybe iam the one " which always a good thing .

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by DinoBoy View Post

    With that, there is one thing I am confused about. You mentioned that PUA should say bold yet risky things. Isnt it better to not say "Im not looking for a serious relationship" at all. I mean isnt it better to keep your motives underwraps so your more likely to pull the girl no matter what kind of relationship she is looking for. I can say other bold things, but I do not have to say that. It might turn her off.

    I can understand if the girl asks directly, but if not… Plead the fif?
    Yeah, it might turn her off, that's why it's "high risk"

    Quote Originally Posted by Mody View Post
    The thing about being PUA that you should recognize the target tensions , desires , yes and nos before he figure you out ,, because girls are different when it comes to the matter of hooking up or dating , so if you see that the girl in front of you like to keep light , no strings attached just like to have a good time then when the time comes you just go with " am not looking for a serious thing ryt now " but if the girl is a dreamer , romantic type then you drop the " i have looked so long but i didn't find someone that could make me take a serious steps in a relationship " , thats a diplomatic answer which make you on the safe side and gonna trig a bill in the girl head " Maybe iam the one " which always a good thing .
    Exactly ^ you get a feel for the girl (calinrate) so that you know specifically what type of things will turn her on. Then, because it's so specific to her she knows that this isn't just something you tell every girl, but that you two have a real connection (part of being a PUA is knowing how to explore and develop that connection through high risk maneuvers like:

    Most negs

    Most disqualifiers

    Kiss gambits

    Moving her

    Bouncing her

    These all require some risk taking as well as an abundance Mindset. Saying and doing risky (but calculated risk) things is crucial because in PU the window of opportinity can close very fast
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    This is an excellent post. Just a SEA OF THANK YOUS under it

    Damn shame the user isn't active any more.
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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    Alright, Here is my obligatory first post. Looking to learn a ton!

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    Awesome article!

    Conversation is one of my big issues. The taking out the nouns technique I really enjoyed.

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    thanks, great article. (also fulfilling first obligatory post and looking forward to learning more)

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    Thanks this is really helpful. Look forward to using this in the field

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    This post is from Saucehead's "The New Formula For Picking Up Chicks." I saw one person say they read something very similar to OP's post before, and this is where it was from. I didn't see Civilian give credit to where it was due.

    I would post a link but I can't post URLs to other sites unless i have 150+ posts. But you can google "Saucehead The New formula for picking up chicks"

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    Default Re: The simple art of Conversation

    thank you this is what iv been looking for


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