A friend of mine went through a weird situation with an HB8 the other day, and it made me come up with a new rule for The Game: "We Don't Operate Hotels."
This chick used to live in Vegas with us, but moved to LA about a year ago. Some of us stay in touch with her, and when she was in town in March she met my buddy at my place and he got her number. I don't know all of the details, but two weeks ago she decided to text my buddy that she'd be in Vegas again, and they decided to hang out at his place when she got here.
So she gets to his house, and they spend all night hanging out, mostly talking and what not. After a few hours, she says "I'm tired, which way is your bedroom?". Now, this chick has plenty of family in town and way better friends than my buddy, and he does not live far from those friends/family at all, so as soon as I heard this (and he felt the same way) I thought he was golden!
So they hop in bed together, and they talk for about two hours. In those two hours I guess he made one or two small passes, like putting his hand on her leg or brushing her hair from her eyes, etc, and I guess she just brushed his hand away every time. After the two hours, he decided to go for broke and went in for a kiss. She turned her head away from him, and at that point he just got fed up, flipped over on his other side, and went to sleep. She slept there all night next to him.
Now I'm not going to say my buddy has all of the skills. I know he didn't try the "you're going to sleep in your jeans" approach, and he probably didn't even try to build up some comfort before then. But regardless, when a chick hops in bed with a dude she barely knows, yes, that is a signal, and this chick was all about games that night. This is where my new rule came from: We Don't Operate Hotels.
After reviewing the night with my buddy, I've decided that he should have kept trying all night. Yes, he may have set his game up incorrectly from the beginning, but either way he should have kept making sexual advances left and right, ESPECIALLY when she shot him down. At this point, one of two things would have happened. Either A) she would have eventually slept with him, which means he wins, or B) she would have gotten annoyed and left, which again means he wins!
So if a chick knows you are interested in her (and they always do) AND she is willing to hop in bed with you, you are either to sleep with her, or piss her off enough so she leaves. Either way, though, we do not operate hotels.
What do you guys think? Any disagreements?