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Thread: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

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    Default How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    I have had success in opening and running game where I can warm opening/approaching because I'm easily able to interact since it's in a social setting such as a club or party.

    The problem I get is when I cold open and approach in places such as malls.
    Here's a scenario that I commonly got recently when I went to the mall.

    Example:
    -Kheaven:
    "Hi, excuse me, but can I get your opinion on something?"
    -HBs: "Yeah, sure."
    -Kheaven: "Do I look gay?" (Gay opener)
    -HB: "No/Yes, why?" *Almost Always Laughs*
    -Kheaven: "(Story about being hit on by gay guy) and I was wondering why this guy would approach me if he had not thought I was gay."
    -HB: *Usually Laughs* "Well, you don't look gay."
    (At this point I have no idea how to transition)
    -Kheaven: "Well, thanks." (Interaction Ends At This Point)

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    Default Re: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    ill go berzerk on you and give you the hardest routine to use after that:

    here goes are you ready?


    you will tell her this:

    Hey im X(YOUR NAME) nice to meet you. whats yours?

    i believe you are lost in terms of the backbone of picking up. i would suggest reading the mystery method. will help you a lot.

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    Default Re: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    Haha.
    I do introduce myself afterwards. It's after that point really that I'm asking for any suggestions on what to do.

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    Default Re: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    Also, I do own MM. I'm currently going through it a second time and taking notes. I haven't read or remember at the moment anything about transitioning after cold opening.

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    Default Re: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    there r so many different ways of transitioning. i mean pua games, dhv stories, and so much other. you can literally transition with almost anything. i think what you need to do is try a bombing run. those are all about completely fucking up and then trying to have fun and see how long you can last in the set
    I live in my reality and you’re a guest

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    Default Re: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    check out bills product The Vibe. He has a whole section he added after some feed back about transition. Some really helpful stuff.

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    Default Re: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    Throw in another opinion question. Say something like "Great, you were really helpful. While I have you here..." and then go into a second routine, except this time you're going to sit down. Once you're sitting, things will feel a lot more natural. Start talking, and remember to have a conversation (statements) and not an interview (questions).

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    Default Re: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    Great advice so far. I was wondering what was the best way to keep it conversational and not be like an interview. I keep falling into interview style questions after a couple of minutes.

    -gotham

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    Default Re: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    Guys this is EXACTLY why I made The Vibe.

    Preview it here (you can listen to the whole module on transitioning). IF you like it, please buy the whole version as there really is a ton of great material/content.

    Vibe Demo

    Bill

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    Default Re: How Do I Transition After Cold Approaching/Opening?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bill Preston View Post
    Guys this is EXACTLY why I made The Vibe.

    Preview it here (you can listen to the whole module on transitioning). IF you like it, please buy the whole version as there really is a ton of great material/content.

    Vibe Demo

    Bill
    It looks like I'm going to be downloading it then to check it out.


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