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  1. #1
    Spartan301 Guest

    Default Never Without an Opener Again

    I've been testing the hell out of this for the past 3 weeks and so far so good.

    Let me backtrack a bit. As of late, I grew tired of trying to come up with canned openers and routines. They only gave me hit-or-miss success, and one of my main goals is to be much more consistant with being able to talk to and connect with women.

    So, I found some info online on more natual openers. One piece of advice I recieved lit up a stream of lightbulbs in my mind and I just had to try it.

    The advice was to use the obvious and relevant.

    It means that whatever is going on during that venue, observe it and spin it into an opener that you can tell a woman. The example I read was a story of a guy and his wingman at a club, and the wing mentions "there are a ton of bachelorette parties". From there, the opener was spun, and the guy went up to a group, "is this night a contest on who has the best bachelorette party?"

    Moral of the story, if you can note it to your friends, you can note it to a woman, as long as it's obvious and relevant to the situation.

    I remember being at a local club and hearing just generic dance music that only a few groups were dancing to. It had no words, just beat and synthesizer sounds. At the bar, I look over at a cute girl next to me. With a smile and a head shake I simply ask, "jeez, what's up with this DJ. he sucks!"

    The girl nods with a smile, "yeah, I know, right?" and with the mutual agreement, I got her name, phone number, and even danced with her when the DJs were switched and better music came on.

    So far, this tactic has worked wonders on at least getting me to a conversation level with the women I meet, day game or night game. Give this one a try and let me know how it goes.

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    Default Re: Never Without an Opener Again

    This is pure situational opening. Almost all the top guys on this board use them far more than any other openers.

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    Default Re: Never Without an Opener Again

    congratulations Spartan, you just discovered situationals XD

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    Default Re: Never Without an Opener Again

    hahah I'm new to this forum, have been on the other but it's funny when people discover situational openers and how to spin them quickly in their head.
    One example of how I met my neighbor, HB8
    Me:*taking out trash , dumpsters right next to her house*
    Her: *looking through her car*
    Me: I hope that's your car and you're not stealing stuff, else you're a terrible thief and should probably come back later tonight

    She laughed, I introduced myself, partied that night and eventually F-closed. But you have to be aware of your surroundings.


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