What I want to do here is build a base for everybody. If you are proficient, you should go back and recheck that everything is working as it should and correct and fine tune this areas of PU. This should be the very base of PU. Around a week ago i thought that there was still some basics that needed to be figured out. I knew those basics and i went out and looked for info on those from reputable gurus( the kind that have proven themselves).
A few weeks before that i figured that all the gurus or the proficient PUAs go for the natural game at last. It should be the game we all want to achieve. We want to walk into places and just saw whatever we want to pick the girls. We want that aura of sexual mastery and seduction that would make every girl cream her panties just by looking at us.
I identified 3 critical areas for this base.
1. Body language, this is a very extensive subject and i will try to simplify it without leaving important stuff. If you want to read the whole thing you can go here... in fact you should read the whole thing:
Cajun's Spice: Advanced Body Language
there are 3 parts. you should read them all a couple times, look for the references and work on your body language, doesnt matter if you are a noob or and old realized PUA. There will be something where you can improve for sure. If your body language is strong having a better body language will help you even more.
BTW theres a new product from cajun about BL but its almost 500$ and i dont have that kind of money. Instead the source of all BL comes from Allan and Barbara Pease. these brothers wrote a very extensive 400+ book on the subject as a whole. they published one book on the 1970s and that quickly became the source for all BL material and their latest is the one im reading. as soon as i finish that book ill make sure to throughly test all the techniques and all i learned from it and i will work on making a summarization of all that matters to PU. Im sure this was the book Cajun has used on both his blog posts and in his new material. I would like to have more people working with that book with me so if you want PM me.
This covers a couple areas. You need to have a solid self esteem, a little bit of narcissistic love towards yourself, you gotta be proud of yourself and its very important that you have achieved things you have wanted. When you achieve you prove yourself the things you can do. The more things you achieve, the more confident you are going to feel for the next time. Work hard on your daily situations and become a achiever at work, at your home with projects, in your hobby ect ect.
To be able to show maximum confidence to girls you got to have this attributes to a high level. You need a little bit of narcissistic love towards yourself. When you look in the mirror do you say: damn im hot girls are lucky tonight!! or do you start looking at physical "faults" and how you would change them? If the latter you need a lot of work on your inner game. I did needed a lot of work until i got into a goal. I was fat and out of shape and i still am to a certain degree but i decided i was going to lose some pounds and get solid and ive been doing it(until i hurt my back playing hoops 5 days ago, ill restart today with the weights), in 2 weeks and 8-10 pounds later i saw the difference. Add that i had a lot of attention from girls and saw some progress and my confidence is thru the roof.
Also very important attributes to have is a NO-QUIT attitude. Dont fucking quit when things get harder. Keep working because when you pass those hard test you will become a better man and a better PUA.
If something my Natural friend W3 teach me was to be thick skinned. He was, he couldnt care more about what people thought of him, so he didnt needed anything when he was out, he didnt needed social proof, approval from people in the pubs, he just was rock solid. you could tell him he look like the duke i let out earlier in the toilet and he would laugh at your face and keep going. He just doesnt care what you think because he knows hes right, hes confident on himself and confidence goes hand to hand with being thick skinned. One protects the other. I cannot say im thick skinned but im getting there.
3. Seduction or sexual escalation. Yes, this is not a base attribute for PU per se but its pretty farking important so ill talk about it.
Lets face it, body language and confidence all work towards one goal: creating attraction and body language can also create rapport but its mainly for attraction. Once that attraction has been built by the previous attributes its time for seduction. When i say after those i mean, you can lock eye contact with her and as soon as you do the attraction is being built.
She gotta feel your sexual energy from miles(aura). as soon as you get to her your mouth could be saying: hi im Prjav! but your body language can already be working on the seduction phase. Turn things sexual as soon as she gives you permission. This is a little hard to explain but she may start to look at you with desire. when you feel the desire and her sexual energy start to escalate. Ive heard of guys that kiss within a minute of approaching. that another farking level on the Aura thing. That should be your aim. Kiss as soon as you can. have her as soon as you can. Thats the reason why we approach, no? we want her and we are going to take her.
Work on sexual escalation now. A great resource on how to heat things up is found on Stealth Attraction series. Kino is very important. taking her hands, thighs to thigh contact(dancing is great for this), neck, ears(i had a girl give me pleasure goosebumps one time by sucking a little on my ear) you can accidentally touch boobs and p*ssy when reaching to grab her arm(gambler)talking to her ears, holding eye contact, pulling her hair, looking at her lips, and i can continue forever lol. but you get the idea. practice kissing and become good at it. Add all these into your repertoire and do them naturally, let them flow as you feel and dont think about what step and routine i gotta do now just let them flow and work it on a natural level. All you gotta know is that kissing comes before makeouts, then comes cunnilingus and you should know the rest. Gambler is the man in sexual escalation and you should watch the material thats recommended.
Please if you want to add more to this add it with a reputable source so this document can become and great tool for the years to come
Allan and barbara Pease,The definite book on body language
Cajuns old blog
Stealth attraction by gambler
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