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    Default Keeping things short ???????????

    Hi guys,
    need your opinion on something.

    Paul Janka says that keeping things short is very important. he says that we shud leave as soon as she gives the phone number and that keeping things short builds the anticipation. Cuz there are a lot unsaid.

    But Mystery says that we shud NOT leave as soon as we get the phone number. And it usually takes sometime to neg , build attraction, comfort.


    So which is the best? keeping things short or long?
    Last edited by xtremeillusia; 09-16-2010 at 12:43 AM.

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    Default Re: Keeping things short ???????????

    It all depends on the situation. Personally, when I (or one of my students) have gotten a number, I find it best to stay around for a while longer. If you leave right after getting the number it's basically telling her that you were only after that, and don't actually care about getting to know her at all. You will find that the majority of girls will not call you back if you do this, so it essentially just made the whole experience worthless.

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    Default Re: Keeping things short ???????????

    The Guru Black Book covers this and more in questions 19, 22 & 23:

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    19: How do you know whether to ask her to your place or to just get her number?
    22: How do you know when it's time to ask for a girl's phone number?
    23: How do you increase the probability that a girl will not flake on you?

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    Default Re: Keeping things short ???????????

    it is situational but the best thing to do is leave when her attraction is at a peak. not just leave short. what you want to do is wonder what else you could have said and how else ur so interesting!! you want her to wonder cause that curiousity builds into attraction about you and she wants to know about you. so its not neccessarily short or long. its just leaving to keep her curious about you
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    Default Re: Keeping things short ???????????

    GREAT Question!

    Ok here is my deal. I have found that if I bounce right after I get a number, they flake. If I stay to long and build t much comfort they LJBF. So you have to find that happy median. Crob is right you want to leave when her attraction is high. Now if you think you can close that night or that its foolsmate keep at it. Don’t get locked into a system. PU has moved beyond the greatness of MM and more towards a natural pickup. SO in other words do what feel right. Stop worrying so much about when its right to leave or to stay. Don’t be a social robot, Just enjoy the experience and show her that you are fun and different. And leave her wanting more. Do that and your golden.

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    Default Re: Keeping things short ???????????

    couldnt have said it even better. its just about feel! and yeah NEVER bounce after the number. they then think that was your goal and then they flake a lot. you want to just get the number, put your phone away and then keep running with it. lots of guys think you have to get the number and leave. basically close it with a number, heck no grab it whenever you guys are laughing and she seems fun so its congruent with what you say. get the number and continue!
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    Default Re: Keeping things short ???????????

    Hey don’t you if you have an iphone but I use mine like crazy to Number Close. Start talking about some crazy app or some goffy app that you have to show them. Then you can ask them if they have “bump it” if they don’t tell them to get it and show them how to works.

    If you don’t know its an app that allows you to quickly send contact info from phone to phone. Along with other things like pictures and all kids of stuff.

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    Default Re: Keeping things short ???????????

    haha that would be kind of good!! i just put it in hand and keep talking with her friend or with her. then put it away cause i have it, sometimes i call her phone if i feel like its fake and then play the put in ur name game, trying to put something goofy and she disagrees. or sometimes ill neg her if she isnt good with touch screens. i mean do whatever just dont make it seems like a goal.!
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