Bill, I ordered The Vibe a short while ago and listened to the module on conversation.
The part that I didn't fully understand was learn, affirm and confirm. For example, if she says she likes Thunderstorms, I'm supposed to say something like "what is it about thunderstorms that you like, nod with my body language and basically agree.
This seems to contradict the idea of being needy and not agreeing with everything she says. I thought I was supposed to differ from her opinion and stand by it, not just agreeing with her all the time.
In a conversation, how often should I agree compared with throwing in some disagreement to not appear needy?