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    Pokerbaby is offline PUA in Training
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    Default i don't understand Learn.Affirm, confirm??

    Bill, I ordered The Vibe a short while ago and listened to the module on conversation.

    The part that I didn't fully understand was learn, affirm and confirm. For example, if she says she likes Thunderstorms, I'm supposed to say something like "what is it about thunderstorms that you like, nod with my body language and basically agree.

    This seems to contradict the idea of being needy and not agreeing with everything she says. I thought I was supposed to differ from her opinion and stand by it, not just agreeing with her all the time.

    In a conversation, how often should I agree compared with throwing in some disagreement to not appear needy?

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    Default Re: i don't understand "Learn.Affirm, confirm"??

    you're not being needy in your example about thunderstorms. you're asking her about what she likes and more importantly why she likes what she likes, and engaging her. a needy response would be something like: "I love thunderstorms, too." There's a difference.

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    El_Draque is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: i don't understand "Learn.Affirm, confirm"??

    Girls like you to have ur own opinions, shows confidence. If u like the same thing just agree though!


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