Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 10 of 17
  1. #1
    adubthahustla Guest

    Default How do I get closer to this girl?

    I'm a 21 year old male and I have this 18 year old female friend that i'm into but I don't really have the guts to tell her right now....But we do fun things together like smoke weed the other day we rode around in her car and smoked 3 blunts just riding around the city so atleast we have some kind of common bond....But how should I handle this??? Should I just speak up the next time we hang out and smoke??? I need advice

  2. #2
    amino2 Guest

    Default Re: How do I get closer to this girl?

    Obviously she likes hanging out with you, so your good on knowing she is interested. I avoid conovo's such as hey i like you, do you like me? or other stuff that shows lack of confidence. What I do do is have fun with women, flirt, be playful, make moves and go for what I want (in a respectful way of course). In ur situation i would prolly us try to escalate chemistry by intentionally being flirtatious and then when I feel like it is warmly received and returned I close.

  3. #3
    adubthahustla Guest

    Default Re: How do I get closer to this girl?

    Also she has a boyfriend BUT I found out yesterday that she's having boyfriend problems so I started text flirting with her and it seemed to be working she said her boyfriend cheated and she's close to leaving him....She's already said she wants to hang out more so i'm just going to keep hanging out and smoking weed with her and take my chances to flirt when I can

  4. #4
    amino2 Guest

    Default Re: How do I get closer to this girl?

    always be flirty! Even when the girl has a bf if she is spending alot of time with anotr guy chances are she is looking to move on. I just went thru this situation with a girl for the first time. I liked her so i kept going for what i wanted, eventually i got it! She still has the bf too! haha

  5. #5
    jabu Guest

    Default Re: How do I get closer to this girl?

    Sounds like you've been doing things right so far and she's enjoying your time together. I'd take amino2's advice on board for sure though, it's top, rapport and building sexual Tension is the best way to naturally flow into a kiss close etc. As for the guy cheating on her, that's ruined trust..she's told you what's happened and she wouldn't have said it if she didn't have a reason to. Just make sure you read it right for the right times to flirt and close. Use what's happened to your advantage and don't feel guilty too...he cheated on her so doesn't deserve to have a gf who's loyal and will stick with him anyway.

  6. #6
    amino2 Guest

    Default Re: How do I get closer to this girl?

    sh8t I forgot to mention, keep her bf outa ur mouth. never acknoledge she even has one. Once u do, u become a shoulder to cry on=friend! Or u end up talking down about him and she finds that unnattractive. Ive made these mistakes and have proved, most importantly to my self, that if you avoid them you get success.

  7. #7
    adubthahustla Guest

    Default Re: How do I get closer to this girl?

    I feel like its going good because yesterday she said the next time she gets some weed she will come chill with me so now she's offering to smoke her weed with me even when I have none and not smoking with her...And I know for a fact that we will hangout plenty more times

  8. #8
    jabu Guest

    Default Re: How do I get closer to this girl?

    Man it's going well, you know she wants to hang with you and enjoys your time together, it's up to you to build attraction now. I'm sure you'll get a smoke as well anyways...puff puff pass! lol

  9. #9
    amino2 Guest

    Default Re: How do I get closer to this girl?

    so r u always just smoking this girl up or what? The way your talking makes me think she may just be using u for ur weed dood! Here's my public service for the day. STOP SMOKING WEED! Its bad for you. hahaha lol do what u want I just dont condone it, plus it messes up ur game cuz u aint all there!

  10. #10
    jabu Guest

    Default Re: How do I get closer to this girl?

    To an extent I agree with you amino... as a smoker of the greenery myself I don't think it's a bad idea if both people are smoking at the same time (just not aaaall the time, every now and again, like at a weekend or something). But, like you said, it can mess up your game. You can get lazy and think too much, but you can also have a right laugh!. Hustla, if you're looking to make this friend of your's a girlfriend, than make sure you guys can get along when sober as well (may be a bit far fetched, but she might even be using you, and smoking weed with you, as an escape from the relationship after the whole cheating thing...her way of zoning out). And she ain't using him for his weed amino, she said she's getting it and will join him, he's getting the freebies lol.

    Why not ask her to do something which involves you guys not smoking weed? That way you'll know if you guys really can get on well with each other.


Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com