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    Default Being intimidating

    There is something I've been struggling with even after some success at picking up women. It seems that regardless of how well I work on my body language, or general appearance, I automatically send off a very intimidating vibe to women.

    It takes them more time than with other men to warm up to me and see me as something rather than a potential rapist.

    Is there any way to use this to my advantage, or eliminate this drawback altogether? I have a hunch I may be able to play "nice leader" and still bed them. The intimidation vibe alone may be able to make up for everything else. After all, women want a male who can protect and lead them. Maybe. . . I've naturally got that covered. I don't know.

    Share your thoughts, please.

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    Default Re: Being intimidating

    I used to have an acquaintence of mine that worked as a bouncer in times square. He was a huge, huge guy. 6' 7 or something like that and maybe 250 pounds of muscle.

    He actually complained and said that he had a hard time meeting girls. I could understand why. I figured that people were already a little on edge in NYC and time square gets a ton of tourists there for the first time.

    I'm not sure if you are as big and mean looking as this guy but my recommendation to him was to wear this big, goofy looking novelty hat to go with his security shirt and jacket. It had a flower and a weather vane on it and it was just goofy. If he was 5 6' and skinny I would have never recommended it, but I think you have to have something disarming when you are just naturally intimidating.

    He emailed me after that once and said it was a conversation starter for a girl he eventually married.

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    Default Re: Being intimidating

    haha yes. when ur a big freaking dude u have to do something that disarms ur intimidation. if your not at work, sometimes a silly pink shirt or something else silly will help make u seem more friendly. you can even sometimes use it as an opener.
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    Default Re: Being intimidating

    Without any words being said, it's hard to look intimidating when you're smiling.

    Large males naturally attract people toward them. It is no different than planets revolving around the nearest large star.

    What are you dressing like? What kind of facial hair do you have? How do you groom yourslef?

    What have you changed and what effect has it had?


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