Ok, so I have been using some online dating techniques and made some coffee dates and I downloaded Carlos Xuma's audio blog bonus from PUMAskills that I bought on the weekend.
Nothing, Nothing ever seems to happen on these dates.
2 Unattractive women, both not into me.
The thing that bothers me is that I read and prepared for the date. I was so non-needy. Maybe I overdid it a little bit.
On the first date I showed up on time, my date was late so I bought a coffee for myself and started reading the newspaper while waiting. When she arrived, I followed DD's advice to tease her a bit and sit up straight/lean back, I disagreed with her at times and held my stand. I even said the date was lating too long and I needed to go out and I cut the date short. She was laughing, bouncing her leg towards me and giving strong eye contacts, all ioi's.
Called her back 3 days later (non needy) and she never returned the call.
How much more non-needy can I be without telling her straight out I didn't like her?
Second date, I decided to warm up a bit because the first date failed. I bought her a tea. I sat down and leaned in a little closer, laughed a little bit more. The date lasted 3 hours, but she said she needed to go to a farewell party. Her cellphone rang in the middle of our conversation. Obvious escape tactic.
Can a Coffee date expert please give some advice?