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  1. #1
    compgeni Guest

    Default Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    I danced with a girl and felt a connection. We found ourself aside, off the dance floor talking about her interests and sharing heavy eye contact, smiles. I didn't kiss her. For some reason I didn't think about it...

    Anyhow.. while we were talking I see this guy come out of freaking nowhere. I tell her "Well, looks like your about to be stolen away". and WITHOUT SAYING A WORD he leads her off somewhere. She turned back to me and said "find me" or "I'll find you" or something.

    I thought 'damn.... Did I just get tooled?' Is it good that I let her go? I may see her again. Should I have started to dance with her myself when I saw him come? How was the situation handled? I could have been extra smooth and did something like "looks like your about to be stolen away" lean in kiss her on the cheek and go.

    I'm SLOWLY getting better with women! Cant wait for that first kiss (I'm 27 and never kissed a girl). If I get excited about that connection then DAMN.. what happened if I got to do MORE with her WOOOOH.. Chilling..

    I wonder if she still thinks about that event or if I do only because I'm not used to it.
    Last edited by compgeni; 10-02-2010 at 06:40 PM.

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    Default Re: Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    well actually you dont want to willingly let her go but u dont want to be a tool bag. best thing to do is make a team with her and AMOG the new guy. you can always say something like "you always seem to be hit on by players! Lets hear this guys pitch", and do that when the guy opens. it puts him on the spot and builds rapport and comfort with the girl treating it like u understand and ur trying to help her out. best thing u probably could have done there...and we need to change that. you shouldnt be 27 and never kissed a girl. thats bad
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    compgeni Guest

    Default Re: Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    Thanks for the advice crob... Always diligent in your PUA Passion.


    27.. kissing... I know I know.. I'm working on it!

    I'm freaking hot now, so more change is in the air. I need to learn to loosen up, work on my cocky funny (or even just my funny and being more aware) and find a social group.

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    Default Re: Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    lol its all good bro. kissing or sleeping with girls doesnt define u. i just couldnt imagine it! :P but yeah best thing to do with guys when they try to steal your target is put them on the spot and make a team with her. then it gives you guys a similar memory and an inside joke to have fun with!! haha
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    Default Re: Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    Yeah you got tooled but you did it right by not acting needy and chasing after it. Crobs line sounds like it would set a good mood, I haven’t used it before, but ill put it in the tool bag. Did she know the guy?

    Also on the kissing thing, stop thinking about it. If you focus on it and make it your goal youll just get nervous and screw it up when the time comes. And if you cant get there, get a plane ticket fly down here and well get you there.

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    Default Re: Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    oh hey you can always come down to colorado as well. we can go to a boulder football game and boulder is filled with models. haha

    oh hey tcomea you live in lousiana right? me and some guys are thinking of going down there for mardi gras for some fun. maybe we can meet up!!
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    compgeni Guest

    Default Re: Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    Whats a nice joke to use next time something like this happens? Or if I see her again?


    I can only think of... "oh, I dunnno, going to have your boyfriends come steal you away again".. Or something like that..

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    Default Re: Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    Crob im about an hour from New Orleans so let me know. Not to far off. But i live near all the college girls

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    Default Re: Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    oh tcomea its on if im coming down. thats going to be one of the funnest nights of my life
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    Default Re: Dancing Connection! She was stolen away! How was my response?

    It depends on the context. It may have been her gay bff who had to tell her privately that he just had the best pounding ever in the boy's room, or her brother who thought you might defile his sister.

    Letting her go was not all bad. It showed you were not too invested yet. If she said find me then you built some sort of attraction.

    If it were me, I might skip a week at that club & let her wonder where you are. Let her be grateful to see you there the next week.


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