I've noticed that I have a weird form of one-itis. No, I'm not running game on just one chick. The problem is that I'm only attracted to girls with a specific set of characteristics - like one-itis for a type of girl (type-itis?).
I've read about natural attraction and personality matches and it makes sense that I would find certain qualities more appealing than others. The problem is I think it's f'ing up my game. I mean, it's tough to REALLY pursue a girl when you don't want her in the first place.
For example, last night I was at a party and started talking to this girl. I was telling a story and had her moderately interested, but the guy next to me showed more interest. Since I didn't really care about the girl I just ignored her and talked to the guy, even though I was making some headway with her.
Should I just try force my way through it and hope the attraction follows suit?