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    Default New Technique for going for the kiss

    Since this seems like a really big sticking point for a lot of aspiring PUA's I thought I would post my favorite way to go for that first kiss. It's something I started using after I had a chick kind of lead me into it once.

    First you need to be holding her hand. The easiest way to do this is to be walking by her side and let your hand brush up against her's and linger for a second. If she is into you, she will take your hand. When she is holding your hand walk with her, or if you are standing next to her, play with her fingers with your hand, while talking to her.

    *If a chick will take your hand in a "I am attracted to you" manner, she is only a hop, skip, and a jump away from being ready to kiss you*

    Slow down the conversation. You want it slow and relaxed.

    Then if you are walking, stop and pull on her arm so that she turns and is now facing you. Then take her other hand, so you are holding both of them. At this point you should be saying something, hopefully funny, or at least just finishing up a sentence. You can also just trail off what you were saying. Look her in the eyes, then pull both of her hands around behind your back so that they are resting in the small of your back (You're still holding her hands. She should lean into you or step your direction, but don't be afraid to take a small step in her direction, while still looking her in the eyes). Hold the look for a moment, then tilt your head slightly and lean in. She should either come forward to meet you or close her eyes and tilt her head for the kiss. Then you go in.

    The reason I like this technique, is that it is something that you can physically control, and yet it seems very romantic and spontaneous to the woman. Not only that, but it gives her a little more power because of her hand contact with your body, thus it cuts down on a lot of the potential awkwardness of you invading her personal bubble in the lead up. Finally, it allows you to gauge her receptiveness with many places to eject.

    Ejection Points:
    1) She doesn't take your first hand.
    2) She doesn't allow you to take her other hand.
    3) She doesn't hold your gaze or pulls away / starts a new conversation hurriedly.
    4) When you start to pull her in, to wrap her arms around you, she resists or lets go of your hand.
    5) You go in for the kiss and she turns away.

    At any of those points you can eject with relatively little awkwardness or embarrassment.

    Finally, if you follow the directions, there will be no doubt in the woman's mind where you are heading, without you having to say a word.

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    Talking Re: New Technique for going for the kiss by PLAYER

    Two weeks ago this worked i did an esp routine on this chick i told her to pick a number between 1 and 10 its almost always 7 i guess it right then i told her to pick a number 1-4 and its almost always 3 i guess it right also she was blown alway i knew she felt attraction so i did a ioi that i saw mystery do (u place your hands over hers and up move them up and down one time and if she doesnt move them alway then that an ioi well after that i told her to close her eyes and count back from 3 so when she got to 1 i kiss her whithout permission it blew her alway and it turn her on but i check for ioi first.

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    Default Re: New Technique for going for the kiss

    Awesome I'm definitely going to try this the next time I get the chance to have a first kiss with a new girl haha It's funny, my fiance is pushing me to get with other girls because she's a voyeur so I'm kinda like wtf hell ya I'll try to find some chicks to get with

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    Default Re: New Technique for going for the kiss

    Thanks man! The kiss is a major sticking point for me, so this is something I will definitely start using. Really very clever.
    "I attempt an arduous task; but there is no worth in that which is not a difficult achievement."
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    Default Re: New Technique for going for the kiss

    i like your kiss close, however if it doesnt work, u dont save face and the girl knows your ioi is larger than hers and thats something that high value males dont do.. i prefer this kiss close technique instead:

    While talking to her in a quite setting....
    as talking, move your fingers to her lower jaw and move it side and tilt upwards towards your face. (assuming your taller than her), then see how she reacts and respond.. if u feel theres no force or pullaway, then go in for the kiss...

    however, if u feel theres a slight pull or resistance, then while still holding her jaw, whisper to her "stay still, you look quite stunning in this light, too bad its only from this angle..."

    u got a save face with a reverse neg at worst for her not complying, and at best, u got a kiss close

    i like to kill 2 birds with 1 stone -P so remember the bottom line:

    your control the frame
    your the prize
    you are nonchalant with negs

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    Default Re: New Technique for going for the kiss

    Dude, this is great, well thought out and I'm definitely going to try it. But I'm gonna say the same as GuyFinessee. The technique is great, but I think ejecting after conveys your interest too directly and you walk away she'll get the idea that's all you wanted and won't regret not kissing you. Like GuyFinesse said, you are the prize, show her she has not won you yet.

    I'd go in a slightly different direction to the neg though.

    If she didn't take the hand after the brush, just move your hand somewhere else casually and carry on as if you didn't even notice. If you're holding her hand(s) at the time, fo a hand throw. Don't literally throw the girls hand off (lol), but it's gotta seem like it was unconcious and you were distracted by something. It works to the principal of Kino escelation, but to a stronger emotional level. She will feel that pang of rejection as it were. Then, when you go for it the next time you should get more compliance.

    But again, great technique man. When I try it, I'll feed back the results.

    : GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: New Technique for going for the kiss

    U guys over-analyse things too much.. this one time i was walking with this hispanic girl, at night, we turned into a small pathway and i put my arm around her shoulders and she automatically wrapped hers on the small of my back, i badly wanted to kiss her she was fucking pretty man (She's one hell of a church girl, im talking seriously devoted)..so i calculated that 3meters ahead il kiss her, 3ms reached i dropped my hand frm her shoulder to her small of her back, slightly pushed her forward and turned her to face infront of me, pulled her chin up n as i ws jst abwt to kiss her she turned away n walked..all ths happened in abwt 20seconds, i didnt say i word i kept the wth the convo and put my arm arwnd her again..we walked, 10ms in the walk i tried agin but she rejected me again sayingn she even literaly walked ahead of me..i caught up with sum teasing and shit..with my 3rd attempt she finaly gave in and it was the warmest and swtest kiss we kissed 4 times in interval. Persistence is key!

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    Default Re: New Technique for going for the kiss

    Good post OP.

    Sounds very good and accurate. You want to sort of break that barrier, and move in close and set the "mood" for whats to come.

    What seemingly happens on my end is the space barrier will be obviously broken, typically touching each other or almost pressing up against each other. Go in for a hug , and then from there they wont let go and have their arms around me...pretty much Green lighted from there. I don't think even a blind man could miss the signals from a setup like that.

    If your doing half way descent and your meet is ending with the girl they might be expecting it and the signs are usually obvious. Some are distant and thats where Ill pull them in closer and it usually funnels right into a kiss close.And I mean at this point if you look at them and their face is inches from yours...what else is to be expected? The only way you could miss it is if your not looking them in the face or you 180 or turn away from them after you get in close, almost like a boxer duck-and-dodge type deal.

    Otherwise if they arent close and are sticking to their distance then there has to be more work done on your end to get into the moment.

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    Default Re: New Technique for going for the kiss

    Uhhh....I just wanted to say I just read this post 3 hours ago and went on a date....and just did this exact technique and HOLY SHIT she was blown away lol

    Field tested she LOVED it....DEF doing this from now on

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    Default Re: New Technique for going for the kiss

    Am usually very good in the K close, but last night i was with this girl HB9 and i she was really into talking " She is a lawyer " , i really get board but i was hanging into her coz of the social value anyway it was one of my epic failures of all time , i actually took her away from her friends group and took her number and she was " Please please txt me " and i said " i promise i will but you have to know that there is no strings attached " she said " I know and i have no problems with that " . here at this point i knew that i should of gone to the kiss but i waited and hesitated and she start walking away back to her friends and then i pulled her back from her arm and i tried to kiss her but she gave me her cheek and said "i remember i owe you one from before " because she gave me a kiss on the cheek earlier that night ,, so lesson to you guys who reading this , never doubt your self when you think it is the right time for the kiss coz if you did and you try later the failure would even more epic .
    Sheers


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