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    Default Guidance please

    Ok so im still quite young and taking courses on becoming an emr,and one of the girls in my emr course added me on FB and we started to talk I am attracted to her. We haven't actually talked in person yet only sending messages back and forth. Im having issues with finding stuff to talk about and keeping the convo consistent and not bouncing around from topic to topic. and then after establishing a good communication between us how do i make my self stand out to her and get her to go on a date with me?

    all comments, suggestions appreciated
    Thank you Xavier

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    Default Re: Guidance please

    First thing you have to do man is talk to her. Class game is probably the easiest because your confined to a room with the person for an X amount of time. Sit next to her and just introduce yourself, get her number and then ask her to go get a cup of coffee with you after class or something. its cheap, easy and effective.

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    Default Re: Guidance please

    I take the approach of asking the 5 W s to her about a subject. Who, What, When, Why and Where. she might say "I like basket weaving" You can ask 1. Who do you go with? 2. what is it that attracts you to basket weaving? 3. do you do it in the day or night? 4 why do you go alone? 5. where is your favorite basket weaving store? Remember this is just very basic. you can come up with more questions.

    I once watched a video that explained a way to come up with new topics to talk about so you never seen like you are out of things to talk about. He said you take one word they say and make a sentence about that word. For example she says "Yeah I saw someone get cut basket weaving and I am scared to do it now" and you can reply "I'm scared of pigs!".

    When asking her out don't say "Would you like to go get lunch with me?" Be more leading and confident such as "I'm going to lunch, you are welcome to join." Make it seem as if your plans don't depend on her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by S_R_S5 View Post
    I take the approach of asking the 5 W s to her about a subject. Who, What, When, Why and Where. she might say "I like basket weaving" You can ask 1. Who do you go with? 2. what is it that attracts you to basket weaving? 3. do you do it in the day or night? 4 why do you go alone? 5. where is your favorite basket weaving store? Remember this is just very basic. you can come up with more questions.

    I once watched a video that explained a way to come up with new topics to talk about so you never seen like you are out of things to talk about. He said you take one word they say and make a sentence about that word. For example she says "Yeah I saw someone get cut basket weaving and I am scared to do it now" and you can reply "I'm scared of pigs!".

    When asking her out don't say "Would you like to go get lunch with me?" Be more leading and confident such as "I'm going to lunch, you are welcome to join." Make it seem as if your plans don't depend on her.

    Nice, I have a hard time carrying a long conversation also. Ill keep your tips in mind.

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    Well the 5W's are good remembers for when the convo goes stagnant but also remember that girls get peppered with '20 q's' by every guy who cold-approaches them and wants to fark....

    A MASTER conversationalist makes the chick ask the questions, and after showing minor interest or 'intrigue" and make THEM ask the questions. the way to do that is to seed the conversation with things that interest them, things you may have picked up from the convo earlier, observation, or just things that interest all girls... reeeeeeeeally helps if you make it relevant to the conversation and sound 'matter of fact' and don't come off like you're bragging.

    I saw a shirt lwith a design like that at the louve in paris. (then DONT expand and jsut stop.) ..k, now she HAS to ask about paris.

    Yeah I felt the SAME way when I got robbed at knifepoint in guatamala. (again, wait to be asked.)


    hahaha, you just reminded me of something funny. (STOP TALKING UNTIL ASKED)

    oh, I did this really embarrassing thing. (again, make them engage you..)

    Not only do they lean in and express more interest and IOIs when engaging, but it makes THEM subconciously feel liek they're into you, you're realluy interesting, and that they want to know more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BadMedicine View Post
    Well the 5W's are good remembers for when the convo goes stagnant but also remember that girls get peppered with '20 q's' by every guy who cold-approaches them and wants to fark....

    A MASTER conversationalist makes the chick ask the questions, and after showing minor interest or 'intrigue" and make THEM ask the questions. the way to do that is to seed the conversation with things that interest them, things you may have picked up from the convo earlier, observation, or just things that interest all girls... reeeeeeeeally helps if you make it relevant to the conversation and sound 'matter of fact' and don't come off like you're bragging.

    I saw a shirt lwith a design like that at the louve in paris. (then DONT expand and jsut stop.) ..k, now she HAS to ask about paris.

    Yeah I felt the SAME way when I got robbed at knifepoint in guatamala. (again, wait to be asked.)


    hahaha, you just reminded me of something funny. (STOP TALKING UNTIL ASKED)

    oh, I did this really embarrassing thing. (again, make them engage you..)

    Not only do they lean in and express more interest and IOIs when engaging, but it makes THEM subconciously feel liek they're into you, you're realluy interesting, and that they want to know more.

    I like that^^^^


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