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    Default Im a bouncer in a bar.

    Hey yall, hows it goin?

    I'm a bouncer in a bar, so there are hot women everywhere, but how should i go about pickin them up there? I'm not a bad lookin guy at all, and im pretty built, so i get looks from them ALL the time. I ignore the hot ones a lot and just kinda walk by them where they can see me and pretend not to notice them, but i think i do this too much and i end up relying on it too much and consequently not approaching them. I guess i expect them to approach me or talk to me. I really need a play-by-play of some openers, then some Fluff talk to get them comfortable around me, and then coming to a Number Close. If yall have any examples (hypothetical or not), that would be great.

    ALSO, Thurs. Nov. 4 they will be hosting a Girls Gone Wild at our bar. Man, if yall can offer ANY advice, AT ALL, of what NOT to do (as well as what TO do) that will be extremely helpful, cause i know they will have tons of topless girls there, and 99.% of the guys there will be just like every other guy and will just oogle at them with awe. What can i do that night to stand out to them, make them attracted to me, and ensure that i go home with one of them or at the very least, go home with a number(s)? As always, any help will be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Im a bouncer in a bar.

    ok well with your position comes any social proof and the basic idea of the "hookup". yes they may hit you up at later times just to get them in for free but what you get in return is to meet are their girlfriends and shit like that.

    so since your the boouncer in the club, your seen as basically "god" of the night. people notice you but dont pay much attention until shit goes down. then they know ur clearing the place out no matter what it takes. so instantly when they meet you they have that vibe of u being the protector. and since you work in the bar you know everybody. so whenever you need something from the bartenders or whatever, they usually will tend to u before the customers. use that to your advantage. the best idea though is to go there on a busy night when ur not working though. because to say the least you can really hit on girls if u need to go bounce some dumbass out of the bar. but im sure with your job, your allowed to wonder to check around the club for things. so take that time to just open a girl. you dont need anything really fancy. just like with any good pickup make it situational. so if you see a guy being a dumbass around a girl. use that to ur advantage. you could even cock block him but only if you feel that vibe that she isnt into him much. since your the bouncer he is not really going to start shit. he just going to be a little pissed off.

    ok so when u get time to wonder around the club/bar, go open some girls and just try to be funny and direct. but if ur too nervous for direct you can maybe try something i literally just thought of. a good way to always build rapport and comfort with a women is this technique where you guys work together as a team on something. one particular technique i like is to use a situational thing when im already running game on a girl and some guy tries to come hit on her. i just say "ok so it seems like players are always trying to spit their game at you. lets hear this guys pitch!" but do it when he is pretty much there and about to talk if not talking. it will put him on the spot and he will freeze up more than likely and if not then he will be like "im not here to hit on her im just___" then just say some stuff to get what he thought he was doing out of him and if he tries to thread switch and go into something like he is hitting on her u can AMOG him and then he is incongruent with what he said earlier and she will usually be turned off cause he isnt alpha like you and just was such an AFC. use the same idea. open a girl and since ur the "god" of the club you can come in basically saying anything that puts u and her on a team together against the AFC guys. even use some NLP tactics like telling her you guys need a sign of some type of "face" that lets me know this guy is all over me...i need help. then she will remember that and everytime it happens or she see's a face like that she is going to be reminded of you.

    but overall the best advice is just do situational. if a girl is getting hit on a lot. ask her about it like "damn!. ok i wont lie you have had like every dude hit on you in this club. how is that" she says her thing and then boom go into the team thing where you just say "ok well ill totally help you out. but we need a face or sign for me to know to come help you" then just keep running game. i could try to think of opinionated or situational but that stuff is so weak. you just need to either be direct or situational.

    ok and with that event ill assume since u said ur fit and probably pretty big and buff to be a bouncer. ill assume u have a nice stomach or chest. use that. since girls will just constantly have guys giving them beads and stuff to see there tits, use some role reversely. its a basic idea on stripper game. break them out of the mood like "ok u give me beads i show my tits" things to you trying to get beads from them to let them feel your body. they will be in such a high energy with the mardi gras thing that they will usually do it. now if your good looking and have a great body they will without a doubt be giving you beads to see and feel your body! that instantly breaks you away from every other guy and then they remember you. and with some sort of intensity they probably will get turned on from seeing ur body or touching it. but then maybe make a joke of it also. "woah woah there feisty. it takes two beads to feel it and one to see it. you trying to jip me on this?" or something along those lines. the thing to this is to say it very playfully so she will laugh and jump thru ur hoop.

    but just overall summary. use the bouncer thing to your advantage. it will be easy to get there number like u can give them the hookup. they will probably be in a frame of using you but if you dont take the frame and just stay playful and fun they will start to just move with things and u can get them attracted. and its an easy way to Number Close. and then do a role reversal on that event night and you will have girls thinking of you instead of every other AFC just trying to see her tits.

    good luck, hope this helped
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    Default Re: Im a bouncer in a bar.

    A good opener could be, "you guys seem cool, are you friendly?" and then move on to asking the group how they know each other, then you can start teasing and assigning roles.

    btw, are you talking about the GGW party in Foxboro, MA?


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