Significant Other - counters
There are only 3 things that limit me when it comes to women.
1) Her time constraint
If it wasn't for this, I would be able to take most girls home the first time I meet them.
2) Her kinda seeing-kinda dating, bf/husband/sugardaddy/boytoy/chump she takes advantage of
This is what this post is about.
3) Me feeling like shit and gaming badly
Most girls I'm targeting don't have husbands, so I've started developing anti bf game. I suppose these can be called bf destroyers though I decide that they are not meant to destroy the bf - only to broaden her view on seriously reconsidering monogamy. Lets begin.
These have been used in the field - spontaneously - this is the sort of thing I can pull out of my ass if the time calls for it. Not extensively tested since I usually don't reuse something I've used in the past (I don't have common routines) but they've worked well on their own.
her "I have a bf"
me "So how long have you been with him?"
her "3 years"
me "wait, you're 23...so you've been with him since 20?"
me "omg...those are like the best years of your life! you can do all the crazy fun shit and nobody cares...how can you do that to yourself?"
her "what do you mean?"
me "well, I respect your decision...its just that sometimes we're afraid of being alone so we rather stay in a relationship that isn't for us anymore. Like you know how in the beginning there is this passion...it's alive, and you never know where things are going to go next."
her "totally...its just that our relationship isn't the same anymore..."
me "and then the passion dies...but we still don't want to be alone...don't you just hate that?"
me -a mins later, she gets my # and calls me saturday night 10 pm telling me she just got off work and she is bored-
The first thing I can think of is "Wow, she's been in only 1 serious relationship for 3 years". Ok, I know a few things, she was probably naive, and I bet the relationship is boring at this point. I target the specific area about the wonderfulness of having fun and not caring about the consequences of her actions while also making her realize about how boring her relationship is right now. Right on farking track
her "well, I don't think my bf would like that"
me "hm...how long have you been in a relationship?"
her "5 months..."
me "wow, you're like 18 or something?"
me "oh well, I met this girl (I told her about the story about the same girl as above)...anyways didn't you ever date more than one guy at the same time?"
her "yea...but now I'm serious."
me "Is he the one?"
her "I don't know yet."
me "Oh yes you do...you know it because when you kiss him (I put my hand close to her lips) your head spins...your heart beats fast (my hand hovers over her chest)...and your tummy fills with butterflies... (my hand hovers over her stomach)...you'll know the moment you lay eyes on him because he'll make you feel wonderful (I smirked at this...of course I'm making her feel great)"
Her eyes widened and she stared at me intensely for about 10-20 seconds...unblinking stare...previously we were gazing around the club as we spoke...the world disappeared and it was only just me. I believe this is called 'doggy dinner bowl' look...she flushed visibly.
her "I gotta find my friends" and she left. I tried to get her to stay...but didn't work out too well.