Ive got a question about tipping. The other night a hot bartender told me I was a "no tipping mother fucker and thats not nice". I just smiled and laughed then walked off. (I was just up there getting drinks and change, so its not like i got mad and stormed off)
Now just to clarify, I do frequent this bar often, and we do often joke around with each other. There will be times when she will hit me, but in a playful way, and the other night she said she was cold and she cupped her hands on top of mine to show me how "cold" they were. I also have her number so its not like we're total strangers, but I cant help but think she was being serious when she said that about not tipping.
So my question is, is it really that rude not to tip? I VERY rarely ever tip cause i believe it sets me apart and tells me if the waitress or bartender is really into me or if its just my money. Also, how do yall think my response was to her telling me that? Is there anything i could have or should have done or said differently?
Any thoughts or comments will be helpful. Thank you. - Toothpick